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| A '''Ruined Orgasm''' occurs when a man (usually) is stimulated to the moment ejaculation is inevitable, and then stimulation is stopped. | |||
| If ejaculation still occurs, it brings less pleasure than usual, and is considered "ruined" or "minimized", as opposed to "denied". | |||
| Alternatively, the ejaculation might be prevented by some sort of constriction. | |||
| This practice is frequently followed by couples who also practice '''Tease and Denial'''. The man is repeatedly teased to the point of orgasm but not quite to ejaculation, causing him feelings of desperation for relief. Eventually, the teaser can choose to allow the man to ejaculate, postpone the ejaculation until a later time (denial), or ruin the ejaculation, as above. | |||
| This practice is said to be used to "keep him under control," by keeping him in a state of constant tension, thus willing to do anything to please the partner. | |||
| As an alternative technique, it is possible for the man to be trained to ejaculate, but to do so without achieving orgasm. This requires practice and discipline on the man's part. One key to the technique is to remove all stimulation of the penis at the exact moment when an orgasm would otherwise be achieved; the result is a full expulsion of semen (albeit with, often, less force than during an orgasm), but with none of the associated relief. Once a man has learned this technique, it enables his partner to keep him in a state of denial indefinitely, yet maintain prostate health more thoroughly than the alternative technique of ]. | |||
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