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{{Short description|Role-playing of an infant-like state}}
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'''Paraphilic infantilism''', also known as '''adult baby'''<ref name="Russell">{{cite book | last = Russell | first = J | year = 2008 | title = Exploring Psychology for AS Level AQA 'A'| isbn = 978-1-85008-258-3 | publisher = Folens Limited | pages =}}</ref> (or "'''AB'''", for short), is a form of ] that involves ] a ] to an ]-like state.<ref name="Hickey">{{cite book|last=Hickey|first=Eric W.|title=Sex Crimes and Paraphilia | publisher= ] |year=2006|isbn=978-0-13-170350-6 | page =355}}</ref><ref name="Speaker">{{citation | last = Speaker | first = TJ | title = Psychosexual Infantilism in Adults: The Eroticization of Regression| publisher = Columbia Pacific University | page = 93 | location = Sausalito, CA }}</ref> Like other forms of adult play, depending on the context and desires of the people involved paraphilic infantilism may be expressed as a non-sexual fetish, ], or simply as a comforting platonic activity. People who practice adult baby play are often colloquially referred to (by themselves and others) as "adult babies", or "ABs".
'''Paraphilic infantilism''' is a ] characterized by the desire to wear ]s and be treated as an ].<ref name="DSM4TR_p572-573" /> or ] One who engages in infantilistic play is known as an adult baby (AB). About one in three adult babies is also a ] (DL),<ref>Thomas John Speaker, ''Psychosexual Infantilism in Adults: The Eroticization of Regression''. Columbia Pacific University. pg 83. Available from: DPF, Sausalito, CA 94965.</ref><ref> Retrieved 2002 from http://www.geocities.com/SouthBeach/Island/5861/ds3_s10.txt, now mirrored at </ref> so they are collectively known as AB/DLs.<ref>Watson, J. (2005, ]). , ''Phoenix New Times''</ref> The majority of infantilists are heterosexual males.<ref name="DSM4TR_p568">Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, Text Revision, 2000 Washington, DC, American Psychiatric Association, 2000, pp 568</ref><ref>Thomas John Speaker, ''Psychosexual Infantilism in Adults: The Eroticization of Regression''. Columbia Pacific University. pg 78. Available from: DPF, Sausalito, CA 94965.</ref>


Behaviors vary, but may include things such as wearing childish clothes, wearing and using ]s, cuddling with ], drinking from a ] or sucking on a ],<ref name="Russell" /><ref name="Speaker" />{{sfn|Money|1986|p=}} and (when done with others) engaging in gentle, nostalgic and nurturing experiences,<ref name="Brame">{{cite book | last = Brame | first = GG |author2=Brame WD |author3=Jacobs J | title = Different Loving: An Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance and Submission | publisher = ] | year = 1996 | pages = | isbn = 978-0-679-76956-9}}</ref><ref name="pate">{{Cite journal |last1=Pate |first1=JE |last2=Gabbard |first2=GO |year=2003 |title=Adult baby syndrome |url=http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/content/full/160/11/1932 |url-status=live |journal=The American Journal of Psychiatry |volume=160 |issue=11 |pages=1932–6 |doi=10.1176/appi.ajp.160.11.1932 |pmid=14594737 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20090606024733/http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/content/full/160/11/1932 |archive-date=2009-06-06 |access-date=2006-03-07}}</ref> ], or ] power dynamics involving ], coercion, punishment or ].<ref name="Brame" />
Paraphilic infantilism and diaper fetishes differ in ] and the focus of attention. They can coexist in individuals, however, and they have some similarities. Neither includes a sexual preference for children<ref name="DSM4TR_p572-573" /><ref name="DSM4TR_p569-570"> Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, Text-Revised. Washington, DC, American Psychiatric Association, 2000, pg 569-570. </ref>. There is no singular, ] infantilism, but a range. Some fantasize about being free of ], ], or control, whereas others might not. Some act indistinguishably from a baby at times, while others practice in a way that would be unnoticed by passers by on the street. The desires and tastes of infantilists vary around common themes of diapers and babyhood.


Paraphilic infantilism is often associated with ], a separate but related activity in which people derive pleasure or ] from themselves or others wearing or using ]s, but without necessarily involving any form of ].<ref name="Kise">{{Cite journal | last1 = Kise | first1 = K. | last2 = Nguyen | first2 = M. | title = Adult Baby Syndrome and Gender Identity Disorder | doi = 10.1007/s10508-011-9783-8 | journal = ]| year = 2011 | pmid = 21618045| volume = 40| issue = 5| pages = 857–859 | s2cid = 207090093 }}</ref> People with a diaper fetish are often informally called "diaper lovers", or "DLs". In practice, however, these strict labels do not always reflect the true diversity of ]. As such, when considered together, paraphilic infantilism and diaper fetishism form a spectrum of behaviors that are often colloquially referred to under the umbrella term "adult baby/diaper lover", or "'''AB/DL'''" (also written "ABDL").<ref>{{cite news | last = Watson | first = J | date = 2005-06-09 | url = http://www.phoenixnewtimes.com/2005-06-09/news/baby-man/ | title = Baby Man | work = ] | access-date = 2011-02-28 | archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20110430181648/http://www.phoenixnewtimes.com/2005-06-09/news/baby-man/ | archive-date = 2011-04-30 | url-status = live }}</ref><ref name="taormino">{{cite news |last=Taormino |first=T |date=2002-08-13 |title=Still in Diapers |work=] |url=http://www.villagevoice.com/2002-08-13/columns/still-in-diapers/ |url-status=live |access-date=2007-05-08 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20080920143752/http://www.villagevoice.com/2002-08-13/columns/still-in-diapers/ |archive-date=2008-09-20}}</ref><ref name="sciencedirect.com">{{cite journal |last1=Zamboni |first1=Brian D. |title=Characteristics of Subgroups in the Adult Baby/Diaper Lover Community |journal=The Journal of Sexual Medicine |date=1 November 2017 |volume=14 |issue=11 |pages=1421–1429 |doi=10.1016/j.jsxm.2017.09.006 |pmid=28970070 |url=https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609517314182 |language=en |issn=1743-6095}}</ref>
== Paraphilic infantilism contrasted with diaper fetishes ==


Like other sexual fetishes (]s), there is no single recognized psychological ] for paraphilic infantilism and very little research has been done on the subject as of yet. A variety of theories have been proposed for fetish development in general, including unique ]s, ] or ], though there no scientific consensus has emerged. Though it varies from person to person, paraphilic infantilism may sometimes be linked to ], ], ] or other consensual ].
One way to describe paraphilic infantilism is to contrast it with a diaper fetish, and this contrast is most clear in ]. Although there is no typical AB/DL fantasy, they often fall within two extremes<ref name="DSM4TR_p569-570" /><ref name="DSM4TR_p572-573" >Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, Text-Revised. Washington, DC, American Psychiatric Association, 2000, pg 572-573. </ref>. One extreme involves the fantasy of being an ] or small child; adorable, sexually innocent, and powerless. The infant fantasy might involve diapers, baby clothes, and toys to help define the infant's ]. In the end, the infant might drift off to sleep in a soft ]. The other extreme is the ] lover. The lover fantasy would focus on diapers as ] items, sexually charged objects and might also end in ] and ]. {{Fact|date=April 2007}}


==Characteristics and practices==
Most individuals who have these fantasies do not seek ].<ref>Stekel, W. (1952). ''Patterns of Psychosexual Infantilism''. Washington Square Press., pg 144, ISBN 0-87140-840-6</ref><ref>Pate J.E., Gabbard G.O. (2003). ''Am J Psychiatry'' 160:1932–1936, also available as a </ref> According to the ], if there is significant distress or impairment for a period of over six months, paraphilic infantilism or fetishism might be diagnosed, depending on the focus.<ref name="DSM4TR_p569-570" /> The urges and fantasies caused by diaper fetishes focus on the diapers themselves, while infantilism focuses on becoming a baby. (Please note that many published cases are only tangentially related<ref>Pandita-Gunawardena, R. (1990). Paraphilic Infantilism, A Rare Case of Fetishistic Behaviour. '']''. 157, 767-770</ref><ref>Mitchell, W. (1954) Epilepsy with Fetishism Relieved by Temporal Lobectomy. ''Lancet''. Vol. II, pp. 626-630</ref><ref>Croarkin, P., Nam, T., Waldrep, D. (November 2004). . ''Am J Psychiatry'' 161:2141</ref> to infantilism and diaper fetishism and should not be confused with the basic paraphilias<ref name="DSM4TR_p568" />.)


Paraphilic infantilists (usually colloquially called "adult babies" or "ABs") are people who derive sexual pleasure and/or emotional comfort from imagining themselves as, and pretending to be, children.{{sfn|Money|1986|p=}}<ref name="holmes" /> It is a specific form of ] and, more broadly, ], that can be practiced alone or with consenting adult partners. As a ] (a ] or ]), paraphilic infantilism may represent an atypical sexual interest but is not usually associated with any psychological disorder or poor mental health, and adult baby play can be considered a conscious and valid act of sexual expression.<ref name=":0">{{Cite web |date=2013 |title=Paraphilic Disorders |url=https://www.psychiatry.org/File%20Library/Psychiatrists/Practice/DSM/APA_DSM-5-Paraphilic-Disorders.pdf |website=American Psychiatric Association}}</ref> In addition, some people participate in adult baby play purely for the positive feeling and emotional comfort associated with childhood and being cared for; to what degree (if at all) ] plays a role depends heavily on the participants and context.
In practice, the distinction between the two is much narrower; both involve diapers and adults. Those who try to act out the infant fantasy or similar ones are called Adult Babies (ABs). This may involve adult sized diapers and baby clothes, etc.<ref>Baumeister, Roy F. (1989). ''Masochism and Self'', Lawrence Erlbaum Associates. pg 159. ISBN 0-8058-0486-2.</ref> If their partner is willing, they may engage in mother/baby ]. The adult baby may choose not to engage in sex while they are in the baby role, since it isn't babylike. In contrast, diaper fetishes are much more practical. They may involve adding diapers to otherwise ordinary sexual activities.<ref>Thomas John Speaker, Psychosexual Infantilism in Adults: The Eroticization of Regression. Columbia Pacific University. pg 80. Available from: DPF, Sausalito, CA 94965.</ref> Those who do are called Diaper Lovers (DLs). Neither are adult baby practices exclusive to paraphilic infantilists, nor diaper lover practices exclusive to diaper fetishists. Many AB/DLs describe themselves as 'mostly AB' or 'mostly DL,' based on which they engage in more frequently. Those with ] and ] may enjoy similar practices.


Whether performed solo or with others, one large part of paraphilic infantilism can be dressing in childish clothes (]s, ], ]s, ] or shortalls, ], ], and other clothing with cute patterns, bright colors and child-like design elements) and adorning oneself with childish accessories (]s, ]s, ], ]s, ]s or ], ]-style furniture, etc.) along with other behaviors such as eating while sitting in a ], sleeping in a ], or swinging in a swing. As such, depending on the person it may or may not be associated with a variety of garment and object fetishes, like ].<ref>{{cite book | last = Baumeister | first = RF | year = 1989 | title = Masochism and Self | publisher = Lawrence Erlbaum Associates | page = 159 | isbn = 978-0-8058-0486-7}}</ref><ref name="Cantor">{{cite book|chapter=Sexual Disorders | author = Cantor J | author-link = James Cantor |author2=Blanchard R |author2-link=Ray Blanchard |author3=Barbaree H | title = Oxford Textbook of Psychopathology|editor=Blaney PH & Millon T | edition = 2nd | year = 2009 | location = New York & Oxford|publisher=]|isbn=978-0-19-537421-6|pages=}}</ref>
To quickly summarize the theoretical differences, adult babies might have paraphilic infantilism,<ref name="DSM4TR_p572-573" /> their interests are self-image or alter-ego focused, and might refrain from sexual activities during adult baby play.<ref>Stekel, W. (1952). ''Patterns of Psychosexual Infantilism''. Washington Square Press., pg 143, ISBN 0-87140-840-6</ref> In contrast, diaper lovers might have a diaper fetish,<ref name="DSM4TR_p569-570" /> their interests are directed at a sexual fetish object, and don't inherently involve roleplay. In practice, the differences among AB/DLs are much less well-defined


Another large part of adult baby expression can be behaving like a child or engaging in childish activities. This may include crawling or sitting on the floor and playing with toys or games,<ref name="Cantor" /> drawing in ]s, consuming food or drinks associated with childhood (]es, ]s, ], etc.), ], using ("]" or "]") diapers or other clothes and being changed,<ref name="Speaker" /><ref name="holmes" /><ref name="Cantor" /> reading or watching children's entertainment, taking ]s or ] (with partners or stuffed toys), engaging in ], etc.<ref name="Cantor" />{{sfn|Money|1986|p=}}<ref name="holmes" />
== Other contrasts ==
=== Pedophilia ===
Confusing infantilism with ] is a common misunderstanding.<ref>Arndt, William B., Jr. (1991). ''Gender Disorders and the Paraphilias'', International Universities Press, pg 394, ISBN 0-8236-2150-2.</ref> Pedophilia is a sexual preference for pre-pubescent children.<ref>], tenth edition, Sect. F65.4</ref><ref>Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition. Washington, DC, American Psychiatric Association, 2000, Fourth Edition, Pg. 527</ref> In contrast, infantilists have a desire to be infants themselves, and those with a diaper fetish have a sexual interest in diapers. Generally, they have ordinary ] or ] sexual experiences otherwise. Inside the AB/DL communities, a sharp distinction is observed. Most AB/DL organizations will expel ].<ref>Gilstrap, P. (1999, ]-11). The Diapers They Are a-Changin'. ''The New Times Los Angeles''. Available from and the website of the interviewee, .</ref>


===Other infantilisms=== === Relationship dynamics ===
When engaging in paraphilic infantilism with ], various dynamics are possible and participants may take up a variety of different roles, including one or more participants acting as "littles" (adult age players), while others may function as "caregivers" (or "CGs") or "switches" (people whose role may change during or between scenes). This relatively common dynamic is generally referred to as "caregiver/little", or "CG/L".
'Paraphilic infantilism' is usually shortened to 'infantilism.' This can lead to some misunderstandings, since 'infantilism' can also mean 'lacking development.' ] involves never having achieved an average maturity, in contrast to adult babies, who actively set their maturity aside. In turn, psychosexual infantilism, a term coined by ], referred to those who haven't "matured" through the ] into ]. Psychosexual infantilism includes paraphilic infantilism as well as other paraphilias and sexual orientations. Finally, ] is a broad term with many meanings. Adult babies regress, but those who regress aren't necessarily adult babies.


After ], rules and play roles are established, the interaction between the little and their partner(s) can take on different forms depending on the desires of the people involved and the nature of the scene. During more nurturing scenes, the little may be cared for or comforted by their caregiver (for example, being cuddled, fed, having their diapers changed, etc.){{sfn|Money|1986|p=}} In this case, the adult baby may want only gentle or comforting treatment, based on the desire to be cared for or to "surrender the responsibilities of adult life".<ref name="Ditmore" /> In other types scenes, the presence of ] dynamics might involve being talked down to, being denied adult treatment, activities or facilities (for example, toileting restrictions), as well as scolded, ] or chastised for misbehaving, acting out, having wet or dirtied their diapers, etc. In this latter instance the mode of arousal is at least partially masochistic.{{sfn|Money|1986|p=}}
===Practical or voluntary use===
Those who wear diapers because of ] are probably not AB/DLs. While they may wear and use diapers, they aren’t necessarily doing it to express an alternate self-image or indulge a fetish. This also applies to those who use diapers for practical reasons, such as ] and ]. Finally, there are some who start wearing diapers as a "new ]."


Potential participants may prefer one specific type of scene over others, or they might enjoy taking part in various different types of scenes.
There are many that wear diapers but are not paraphilic infantilists or diaper fetishists in the strictest sense. Their motivations and underlying ] are different. However, those who share AB/DL interests and practices are generally welcome in the communities, and may sometimes be counted as AB/DLs.


=== Sexuality ===
== Common ] elements ==
Adult baby play may also involve ]<ref name="Cantor" /><ref name="Ditmore">{{cite book | last = Ditmore | first = MH | title = Encyclopedia of prostitution and sex work, Volume 1 | isbn = 978-0-313-32968-5 | publisher = ] | year = 2006 | pages = }}</ref> or ] between consenting adult partners. However, some may choose not to engage in conventional sexual activities (either because it detracts from their ability to role-play being in a baby-like state, or because their interest in paraphilic infantilism is non-sexual and motivated by feelings of comfort or being cared for).{{sfn|Stekel|1952|pp=143–144}}
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===Coercion===
Force or ] is sometimes present in AB/DL fantasies.
This can range from the inclusion of S&M or B&D play into AB scenarios through to more specifically AB scenarios such as the Diaper Discipline, or Petticoat Punishment in which a supposed older child or adult is regressed into a baby-state as punishment for misdemeanors. This can sometimes form a validation activity, where the AB mitigates their guilt for having AB desires with the fact that they are only in diapers as a punishment.


Like many other fetishes, the erotic pleasure derived solely from paraphilic infantilism may partially or completely replace the need for conventional sex in reaching ], though it depends on the individual and their level of sexual interest.{{sfn|Money|1986|p=}}
===Identification===
AB/DLs may enjoy looking at pictures showing whom they want to be, as opposed to whom they want to be with. For example, a ] male adult baby may enjoy looking at pictures of men in diapers: he may be ] himself as the men in the diapers.


==Prevalence==
===Permanent regression===
Meaningful information on the ] or ] of any paraphilias is lacking due to the private (and often taboo) nature of such practices.<ref name = Cantor/> Similarly, it has been observed that adult baby play is often a ] activity and it is not yet well documented in medical literature.<ref name="pate"/><ref name=Mednet2002>{{cite web|last=Pretlow |first=Robert A |title=The internet can reveal previously unknown causes of medical conditions, such as attraction to diapers as a cause of enuresis and incontinence |publisher=Mednet |year=2002 |url=http://www.mednet2002.org/abstracts/display.cfm?id=166472151 |url-status=dead |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20060217215747/http://www.mednet2002.org/abstracts/display.cfm?id=166472151 |archive-date=2006-02-17 }}</ref>
A common fantasy among adult babies involves a permanent return to a more infantile position. This is a special case of a desire to regress, common among adult babies. This may involve being put back in diapers or returned to the ] for the rest of their life. These fantasies may be enjoyed even by ABs who are consciously aware that they would not want to give up their adult lives.


In one study of AB/DL website participants, 93% of the sample was male (], excluding transgender individuals). 58% of the men and 34% of the women were heterosexual. Males on average first became interested in AB/DL at age 11, and started practicing it at the age of 13, compared to the ages of 12 and 16 for females, respectively. The most frequent activities were wearing diapers, wetting, and using other baby items. 87% of the men and 91% of the women reported that their AB/DL had not caused any significant problems or distress.<ref name="hawkinson">{{cite journal | author = Hawkinson, K., & Zamboni, B. D. | year = 2014 | title = Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers: An Exploratory Study of an Online Community Sample | journal = Archives of Sexual Behavior | volume = 43 | issue = 5 | pages = 863–877 | doi=10.1007/s10508-013-0241-7 | pmid=24473941| s2cid = 41206700 }}</ref>
===Exhibitionism===
] and ] are not expected from infants and small children. Babies can be out in public in just a diaper and t-shirt, and can have their diaper changed in public.
There are no local, state, or national laws that prohibit adults from wearing diapers, t-shirts, diaper covers, or body suits (onesies).


It also reported that 9% of ] groups devoted to fetishes dealt with paraphilic infantilism, which was high in relation to other fetishes.<ref name="Hawkinson 863–877">{{Cite journal|last1=Hawkinson|first1=Kaitlyn|last2=Zamboni|first2=Brian D.|date=2014-07-01|title=Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers: An Exploratory Study of an Online Community Sample|journal=Archives of Sexual Behavior|language=en|volume=43|issue=5|pages=863–877|doi=10.1007/s10508-013-0241-7|issn=0004-0002|pmid=24473941|s2cid=41206700}}</ref> The same study, however, noted that males became interested in paraphilic infantilism earlier than females, at age 11 rather than 12, and also began to act on their interests earlier, at 13 rather than 16. It also found that while most males interested in paraphilic infantilism were primarily heterosexual (58%), most females were primarily bisexual (43%). 34% of women were primarily heterosexual. Although both men and women varied in terms of education, only 66% of men and 39% of women earned more than $25,000 a year.<ref name="Hawkinson 863–877" />
===Control Removal===
Just as a baby has no responsibilities, they also have no privacy. The inclusion of scenarios where the AB is not granted genital privacy and has no rights of complaint or choice of activity can provide a return to a baby-state and can allow deep immersion in the baby mindset.
In this context the AB is usually not allowed to touch themselves, but may have their diaper changed, their body cleaned, their genitals examined, and even be internally examined, such as being given enemas and suppositories, without any warning, choice of circumstances or control over who is present. Their right to control access to their genitals is completely disregarded.


Because atypical sexual behaviors which do not cause ], personal distress, ], or have ] are generally not considered to be unhealthy or have psychiatric significance, people who practice closeted fetish activities like paraphilic infantilism are often not under the purview of psychiatric awareness and knowledge.<ref name="pate" /> Likewise, many people who engage in ]s do not consider themselves as suffering from a medical condition and do not feel a need or lasting desire to change their behavior.<ref name="pate" />{{sfn|Stekel|1952|pp=143–144}} Individuals who practice paraphilic infantilism may only seek therapy for other unrelated issues or, if discovered by others, be encouraged or coerced to seek treatment pertaining directly to the paraphilia itself.<ref name="Pandita">{{Cite journal |last1=Pandita-Gunawardena |first1=R |year=1990 |title=Paraphilic infantilism. A rare case of fetishistic behaviour |journal=The British Journal of Psychiatry |volume=157 |issue=5 |pages=767–70 |doi=10.1192/bjp.157.5.767 |pmid=2279218 |s2cid=32175263}}</ref> This, however, makes it difficult to know the exact prevalence and distribution of ] among the general population, thus highlighting the potential of anonymous internet surveys for data collection on the AB/DL community.<ref name="Mednet2002" />
===Sissy babies, cross-dressing===
A '''sissy baby''' is a male AB/DL who mixes gender play with infantilism.<ref>Tistan Taormino, Retrieved ] ] from http://www.villagevoice.com/people/0233,taormino,37378,24.html</ref> This ] might involve stereotypical or exaggerated "little girl" clothing, such as frilly panties or dresses. Sissies are not necessarily ] in that, while some might be expressing an alter ego that is a baby girl, they might not wish to be an adult woman at other times. Alternatively, some ] people simply participate in ageplay as their ] as a logical extension of their transgender life.


==Relation to other behaviors==
A separate group enjoys the masochistic demasculinization of being dressed as baby girl, analogous to non-AB/DL masochists who enjoy being cross-dressed by force.
Infantilism is a diffuse phenomenon and different authorities have taken varied approaches to the question of its medical and sexological classification.{{Vague|reason=What this sentence is specifically saying and why it's relevant to this section is unclear.|date=May 2023}}


=== With diaper fetishism ===
===Integrating other interests===
{{Main|Diaper fetishism}}
The individual AB/DL may have other interests that have become integrated with AB/DL. Sissys are one example. In turn, a ] has integrated infantilism and ]. Sissys and babyfurs are among many groups resulting from the integration of side-interests with infantilism. The combinations can themselves be combined in countless ways. For example, there are sissy babyfurs.
Strictly speaking, people with a ] are aroused by the idea of wearing ]s as an adult, and may not participate in any form of ageplay.<ref>{{Cite journal |last1=Malitz |first1=S |year=1966 |title=Another report on the wearing of diapers and rubber pants by an adult male |journal=The American Journal of Psychiatry |volume=122 |issue=12 |pages=1435–7 |doi=10.1176/ajp.122.12.1435 |pmid=5929499}}</ref> Practically speaking, there can be a great deal of variation and overlap between paraphilic infantilists and diaper fetishists, and the term "AB/DL" can be used as a catch-all term which includes a broad spectrum of related kinks and behaviors.<ref name="taormino" /> As diapers are a commonly used a prop for "adult baby" role-play, diaper fetishism may be considered a potential component of paraphilic infantilism.<ref name="sciencedirect.com"/>


] ] distinguished between paraphilic infantilism (or autonepiophilia) and paraphilic diaper-wearing, stating that the latter is a paraphilic fetish that manifests as an erotic attraction to an article of clothing while the former is a non-fetishistic paraphilia directed at a change of status in terms of age identity.{{sfn|Money|1986|p=}}
== Origins ==
There are many different causes for Paraphilic Infantilism, and most AB/DLs are unaware of any specific reason for their AB/DL nature.
Many AB/DLs describe incidents throughout their life from a young age that indicate that the inclination has been with them for a long time. Others discover a joy in it later in life.


=== Relief from stress === ===With BDSM===
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It seems common for "relief from stress" to be indicated as an important aspect, but it can be hard to determine if the stress results from the AB/DL nature or the AB/DL nature provides an escape from the stress. In either regard the attitude is often that in child-state there are none of the responsibilities of day-to-day life. This may be indicative of difficulties and stresses during toilet training, given that bladder/bowel control is the first responsibility most children are taught.
{{See also|Sadomasochism}}
In certain people who partake in the AB/DL life style the stress relief comes in when they are acting or role playing as babies especially if they have a mommy, a daddy or a sitter looking after their every need, for example diaper changes, feeding and bathing.
In some cases, paraphilic infantilism can involve elements of BDSM. For example, the pseudo-forced used of childish clothing and/or diapers as a way of establishing a power dynamic of ], as well as for scenes involving punishment and humiliation.


The '']'' (''DSM'') states that along with other behaviors, ] "...may have a desire to be treated as a helpless infant and clothed in diapers ('infantilism')"<ref name="DSM572">{{cite book|last=American Psychiatric Association|title=Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, Text Revision|publisher=American Psychiatric Association|location=Washington DC|year=2000|isbn=978-0-89042-024-9|page=}}</ref> and this association is repeated by others.<ref>{{cite book|last=Lippincott Williams & Wilkins|title=Professional Guide to Diseases|publisher=Lippincott Williams & Wilkins|isbn=978-0-7817-7899-2|year=2009|edition=9th|editor=Catherine Harold| page=}}</ref><ref>{{cite book|page=|last1=Kring|first1=Ann|last2=Johnson|first2=Sheri|last3=Davison|first3=Gerald C.|last4=Neale|first4=John M.|title=Abnormal Psychology|year=2009|publisher=John Wiley and Sons|isbn=978-0-470-57712-7|edition=11th}}</ref><ref>{{cite book|last1=Becker|first1= Judith V.|last2= Stinson|first2= Jill D. |year=2008|chapter=Human sexuality and sexual dysfunctions|editor = Robert E. Hales, Stuart C. Yudofsky & Glen O. Gabbard| title= The American Psychiatric Publishing Textbook of Psychiatry|publisher= American Psychiatric Publishing|pages=|isbn= 978-1-58562-257-3|edition=5th|location=Arlington VA}}</ref> Masochism appears to be particularly important for female infantilists.<ref name="hawkinson" />
=== Negative incidents ===
Specific incidents may have occurred during childhood or adolescence that have caused nappies to get a sexual association, or that caused the developing child to feel safer when still in nappies. Examples can include so-called diaper-discipline still sometimes practiced on wayward children/teens, sexual abuse, or even simple chances of circumstance such as loss of a parent at the critical point of development. A number of AB/DL's report developmental delays in their bladder and/or bowel training, such as late bedwetting.


Psychologists D. Richard Laws and ] state that "Although infantilism is classified as a sexual masochism in the ''DSM-IV'' and ''DSM-IV-TR'', it is questionable whether the criteria for sexual masochism are always met. For example, if the infantile role playing does not involve feelings of humiliation and suffering, then the diagnosis of sexual masochism would not be appropriate and a diagnosis of infantilism as a paraphilia is warranted."<ref>{{cite book|last1=Laws|first1=D. Richard|last2=O'Donohue|first2=William T.|title=Sexual Deviance: Theory, Assessment, Treatment|publisher=Guilford Press|year=2008| pages = | isbn = 978-1-59385-605-2}}</ref> ] ], in his book '']s'' describes paraphilic infantilism as a possible "...adjunctive to masochistic discipline and humiliation."{{sfn|Money|1986|p = }} Sexologist William B. Arndt considers paraphilic infantilism to combine forms of fetishism, transvestism and masochism.<ref name = Arndt>{{cite book|last=Arndt|first=William B.|title=Gender Disorders and Paraphilias|publisher=International Universities Press|year=1991|isbn=978-0-8236-2150-7 | page = 394}}</ref> Wilhelm Stekel considered sado-masochistic practices to be variant behavior arising from psychosexual infantilism.<ref>{{cite book|last=Dailey|first=Dennis M.|title=The Sexually Unusual: A Guide to Understanding and Helping|year=1989| pages = |publisher=Psychology Press |isbn=978-0-86656-786-2}}</ref>
=== Gender association ===
Particularly amongst sissy-babies, but also amongst some other AB/DLs, the time as a baby may be associated with softness and aspects of life seen as more feminine. This can then show as an AB/DL fetish later in life when trying to unravel unexpressed elements of femininity.


A potential connection between paraphilic infantilism and sadomasochism has been noted in the Polish publication, Przegląd Seksuologiczny. Research results within the publication indicated that 28% of those paraphilic infantilists surveyed reported an interest in ].<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Wojciech|first1=Oronowicz|title=AB/DL group. Close relationships and sexuality|journal=Przegląd Seksuologiczny|volume=3|issue=47|pages=10–17|url=https://www.researchgate.net/publication/311807353}}</ref>
== Sex Ratio ==
There is a strong tendency for AB/DLs to be male. Estimates range from 10 to 20<ref name="DSM4TR_p568" /> males per female AB/DL. The role of baby is more feminine than masculine: nonthreatening, soft, cute, and powerless in ways. It is unclear whether this cultural factor has increased or decreased the number of female AB/DLs overall.


=== With cross-dressing ===
== Practices ==
{{Main|Cross-dressing}}
Aside from the many things that AB/DLs would like to do, but cannot, there is an extensive list of practices that they might actually engage in. Some common elements and practices are listed here.
Some adult babies may also engage in ] by wearing clothes which are stereotypically associated with the opposite gender. This subset of the AB community is typically made up of males dressing in "feminine" styles of clothing. (This specific behavior is often referred to as being a "]".)<ref>https://ddlgland.com/blogs/news/cross-dressing-in-the-abdl-community</ref>
People who are attracted to masochistic forms of infantilism may participate in ].<ref name="taormino" /><ref name="Marx">{{cite book |last=Marx |first=E |title=101 Things You Didn't Know about Sex |publisher=Adams Media |year=2009 |isbn=978-1-60550-106-2 |pages=}}</ref>


===Diaper usage=== === With furry fandom ===
{{main|Furry fandom}}
A central practice to AB/DL is wearing a diaper. When wearing diapers, many AB/DLs like to ] in them, and a smaller number<ref>Thomas John Speaker, ''Psychosexual Infantilism in Adults: The Eroticization of Regression''. Columbia Pacific University. pg 81. Available from: DPF, Sausalito, CA 94965.</ref> ] in them. Others do not because they find such practices disgusting, do not enjoy it, do not want to go through the cleanup afterward, or wouldn't be able to without being obvious. Some AB/DLs have difficulty wetting their diapers when they want to, as the result of overtrained bladders or ].


At the intersection of paraphilic infantilism, ] and the ] exist the "babyfur" and "diaperfur" subgenres.
A common compromise between wanting to wear diapers and needing to go about daily life is to wear diapers under normal clothing. When adult babies do so, it is in their everyday mindset, as opposed to an infantile one. A few adult babies wear diapers all the time, and may seek to develop ]. The level of enjoyment in wearing diapers all the time is mixed, and it may have lasting effects; some adult babies have found that the enjoyment diminishes rapidly when the need to wear diapers is always present.<ref>, Understanding Infantilism</ref> Other AB/DLs enjoy wearing diapers intermittently more than they would enjoy wearing them all the time.


Like others in the furry fandom, "babyfurs" and "diaperfurs" enjoy creating and roleplaying as unique and personalized animal characters, but generally with characters that may be considered younger, exhibit ] childlike qualities, wear diapers (potentially under and/or over a ]), etc.
===]===
A difficult choice that AB/DLs must make involves to whom to disclose interests. This offers the possibility of being accepted for who they are, and not having to hide. However, it also includes the risk of disgrace at home, school, and work, or on the Internet. It is human nature to reject things that are different of others to ones-self, the existentialist would challenge the criticisms of those around them to help develop their own niche in the world, which the internet has helped with.


===Finding a "mother" or "father"=== === Versus pedophilia ===
{{main|Pedophilia}}


Paraphilic infantilism is {{Em|not}} to be confused or conflated with ], as "adult babies" (adults who engage in paraphilic infantilism) are only {{Em|participating in sexual role-play, either by themselves or with consenting adult partners}}.<ref name = Arndt/><ref name = Tiefenwerth>{{cite book|last=Tiefenwerth|first=Thomas J.|title= Criminal Sexuality and Psychopathology: Pornography as a Contributory Risk Factor in the Psycho-Social Development of Violent Sex Offenders |year=2007|isbn=978-0-549-14928-6 | page = 111 }}</ref> People with this fetish are not as a rule attracted to children and do not seek them as sexual partners, and paraphilic infantilism is not related to pedophilia or any form of ].<ref name = holmes>{{cite book|last1=Holmes|first1=Ronald M.|last2=Holmes|first2=Stephen T.|title=Sex Crimes: Patterns and Behavior | publisher = ] | year = 2008 | isbn = 978-1-4129-5298-9 | pages = }}</ref> Sexologist ] states that "...infantilists who recognize and accept their sexuality - and its possible roots in ] - tend to be acutely protective of real children."<ref name = Brame/>
A difficult part of life as an AB/DL is finding a partner that will succesfuly, and voluntarilly fulfill their needs. This is extremly difficult for adult babies because they desire their partner to take on a caregiver role, which means acting as a "mommy" or "daddy" to them. It is hard because not many people truly desire to take care of their significant other in this way. Female AB/DLs are not necessarily willing to be mommies. Diaper lovers may end up taking on the role of the caregiver to an adult baby. In fact, 95% of mommies and daddies started as DLs. {{Or|date=December 2008}} Also, some AB/DLs "switch" roles. Switching means sometimes they may act as the caregiver and other times as the baby.


In 1993, sexologists ] and ] published and discussed a series of ] involving paraphilic infantilists<ref name = Cantor/> and noted a distinction between them and pedophiles. Pedophiles are sexually attracted to children and desire for a child sexual partner. In contrast, paraphilic infantilists ''merely imagine and ]'' (usually by adopting the objects and mannerisms of childhood) to increase the ] between themselves and their preferred adult sexual partners with whom they acted out masochistic fantasies.<ref name = Freund>{{Cite journal
== Growing up as an AB/DL ==
| last1 = Freund K
Teens who are infantilists are often referred to as teen babies (TB). Generally, adult baby and teen baby are not used in an exclusive manner. Teens who are adult babies are also teen babies. Infantilist teens often struggle with their urges for infantile items, treatment, or behavior. Often, the hardest part of this struggle is telling other people about these feelings - doing so during adolescence can mean social or parental rejection and, in some cases, can also lead to abuse and violence. Teen infantile behavior varies heavily and can be influenced by factors such as puberty, privacy and life stressors.
| last2 = Blanchard R
| title = Erotic target location errors in male gender dysphorics, paedophiles, and fetishists
| journal = ]
| volume = 162
| issue = 4
| pages = 558–563
| year = 1993
| pmid = 8481752
| doi=10.1192/bjp.162.4.558
| s2cid = 24239209
| author2-link = Ray Blanchard
}}</ref>


] Stephen and Ronald Holmes believe that while there is no simple answer to the origins of infantilism, the practices may involve an element of stress reduction similar to that of ]. These criminologists state that this paraphilia is not inherently a crime in and of itself, and differ it from child sex abuse.<ref name="holmes" />
While feelings of isolation are still a common part of the youths of AB/DLs, a number of online communities have developed, many of which have grown due to the increasing ease of accessing the internet. Before the age of the internet it was not uncommon for a teen diaper wearer to feel extreme isolation, and would often feel they might be the only one to like diapers. Now they can be open with people like them.


== Paraphernalia == == Psychology ==

While the tastes and collections of individual ABs differ, some items that might be involved include ]s, ]s, ]s, ], ]s, ], ]s, ]s, ]s, ], ], ]ies, and ]s.
=== Clinical significance ===
{{See also|Paraphilia}}
Like all kinks, paraphilic infantilism can be considered an atypical sexual interest, but that alone is neither problematic nor indicative of poor mental health. Since the mid-2010s, the general psychiatric consensus around ]s (] and ]) as declared in the ] (2013) and ] (2019) psychiatric manuals is that "most people with atypical sexual interests do not have a mental disorder".<ref name=":0" />

As part of the intentional depathologization of atypical sexual interests, the medical community has made an effort to draw a clear distinction between safe and healthy expressions of paraphilia and ]. For safe and consensual behaviors like paraphilic infantilism and other forms of adult roleplay to rise to the level of being considered a paraphilic disorder (and thus a potential mental health issue) one must feel ''significant personal'' (and not merely ]) ''distress'' around their interests or their effects on one's life.<ref name=":0" /> Likewise, people who are happy and comfortable with their kinks are not to be considered mentally unhealthy in any way.<ref name=":0" />

As such, the goal of therapy for the treatment of otherwise safe and consensual paraphilic disorders is typically the management of distress, shame, and other lasting negative feelings around their unique interests.

=== Etiology ===
Research on the ] of paraphilias in general is minimal and as of 2008 had essentially come to a standstill; it is not clear whether the development of paraphilic infantilism shares a common cause with other paraphilias.<ref>{{cite book | last = Rowland | first = DL |author2=Incrocci L | year = 2008 | pages = | isbn = 978-0-470-25721-0 | publisher = ] | title = Handbook of Sexual and Gender Identity Disorders }}</ref> A 2003 case report by psychiatrists Jennifer Pate and Glen Goddard found little research on the topic.<ref name = "pate"/>

To date no broad-based scientific studies have been made on the cause, incidence and general impact of paraphilic infantilism on society at large. This may be due to both the rarity of the practice and because few paraphilic infantilists appear to seek professional mental health counseling pertaining directly to the paraphilia.<ref name="pate" />{{sfn | Stekel | 1952 | pp=143–144 }} A mental health evaluation of an 80 year old paraphillic infantilist whose paraphilia may have been related to a head injury at the age of six concluded that treatment was unwarranted.<ref name = Pandita/>

An online survey conducted in 2020 indicated that "adults with interest in ABDL showed the presence of ] traits and recollections of ] during childhood."<ref>{{Cite journal |title=An Exploratory Study of Adult Baby-Diaper Lovers' Characteristics in an Italian Online Sample |date=2020 |pmc=7068517 |last1=Lasala |first1=A. |last2=Paparo |first2=F. |last3=Senese |first3=V. P. |last4=Perrella |first4=R. |journal=International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health |volume=17 |issue=4 |page=1371 |doi=10.3390/ijerph17041371 |pmid=32093315 |doi-access=free }}</ref>

==== Lovemap theory ====
] ] developed the theory of a ], <blockquote>
"A developmental representation or template in the mind and in the brain depicting the idealized lover and the idealized program of sexual and erotic activity projected in imagery or actually engaged in".
</blockquote>

Money thought that the lovemap was normally fully developed by the ], serving as a kind of sexual template through to the end of one's adult life.{{sfn|Money|1986|p=}} Money believed all paraphilias were caused by the formation of abnormal lovemaps during the ] years and that such abnormal lovemaps can be formed by any number of contributing factors or stressors during this developmental period.{{sfn|Money|1986|p = }}

==== Imprinting theory ====
It has been hypothesized that, among other possible causes, sexual templates are established by a process akin to ] where lack of availability of female genitals during a critical period of development causes the imprinting mechanism to instead associate with the nearest ] or ] approximation. In the case of infantilism, the discipline of the mother or wearing diapers may create associations between pain, humiliation and sexuality.<ref>{{cite book|last=Wilson|first=Glen Daniel|title=Variant Sexuality: Research and Theory|publisher=Taylor and Francis|year=1987|isbn=978-0-7099-3698-5|pages = }}</ref>

Similarly, authors Zack Cernovsky and Yves Bureau hypothesize that erotic fixation to diapers may parallel a study conducted by ] in which he deprived infant monkeys of their natural mothers and gave them an artificial mother made of wire and another made of cloth; the monkeys were more likely to spend more time with the mothers made of cloth.<ref>{{Cite journal |last1=Cernovsky |first1=Zack |last2=Bureau |first2=Yves |date=2016-11-23 |title=Lady with Erotic Preference for Diapers |journal=Mental Illness |volume=8 |issue=2 |pages=6687 |doi=10.4081/mi.2016.6687 |issn=2036-7457 |pmc=5136749 |pmid=27994834}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web |title=Harlow's Classic Studies Revealed the Importance of Maternal Contact |url=https://www.psychologicalscience.org/publications/observer/obsonline/harlows-classic-studies-revealed-the-importance-of-maternal-contact.html |access-date=2023-05-26 |website=Association for Psychological Science - APS |language=en-US}}</ref>

==== Erotic location target error theory ====
An additional theory is that infantilism is an erotic identity disorder where the erotic fantasy is centered on the self rather than on a sexual partner and results from an ] where the erotic target was children yet becomes inverted. According to this model, proposed by Ray Blanchard and Kurt Freund in 1993, infantilism is a sexual attraction to the idea of the self being a child.<ref name=Cantor/> However, this theory has also been criticized for being a "slippery slope" which "] nonstandard sexual expression".<ref>{{cite journal |last1=Lawrence |first1=Anne A. |title=Erotic Target Location Errors are Easy to Mischaracterize: A Reply to Moser |journal=Journal of Sex Research |date=24 September 2009 |volume=46 |issue=5 |pages=385–386 |doi=10.1080/00224490903230061}}</ref>

==== Psychodynamic regression theories ====
In psychoanalytic theory, Regression (German: Regression) is a defense mechanism involving the reversion of the ego to an earlier stage of psychosexual development, as a reaction to an overwhelming external problem or internal conflict.<ref>{{Cite web |title=APA Dictionary of Psychology |url=https://dictionary.apa.org/ |access-date=2023-11-24 |website=dictionary.apa.org |language=en}}</ref> A study published in 2019 stated a correlation between childhood maltreatment and paraphilic infatilism and related fetishes. The regression theories in the psychodynamic area hypothesise that during sexual activities, individuals may subconsciously regress to an early state of childhood for comfort and pleasure, with some masochistic elements attached to the same.<ref>{{Cite journal |last1=Fuss |first1=Johannes |last2=Jais |first2=Laura |last3=Grey |first3=B. Terrance |last4=Guczka |first4=Sascha R. |last5=Briken |first5=Peer |last6=Biedermann |first6=Sarah V. |date=2019-11-17 |title=Self-Reported Childhood Maltreatment and Erotic Target Identity Inversions Among Men with Paraphilic Infantilism |url=https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/0092623X.2019.1623355 |journal=Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy |language=en |volume=45 |issue=8 |pages=781–795 |doi=10.1080/0092623X.2019.1623355 |pmid=31130086 |issn=0092-623X}}</ref>

==== Other theories ====
In the limited number of extant medical case reports some clinicians have attempted to explain the behaviors associated with infantilism in terms of ],<ref>{{cite journal | last1 = Croarkin | first1 = Paul | last2 = Nam | first2 = Theodore | last3 = Waldrep | first3 = Douglas|title= Comment on Adult Baby Syndrome (letter to the editor)|journal=American Journal of Psychiatry | volume = 161 | issue = 11 | year = 2004 | page = 2141 | doi = 10.1176/appi.ajp.161.11.2141-a|pmid=15514436}}</ref> as "a concurrent cluster of symptoms found in a variety of psychiatric disorders."<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Evcimen|first1=Harun| last2= Gratz| first2=Silvia|title=Adult Baby Syndrome (letter to the editor)|journal=Archives of Sexual Behavior | volume = 35 | issue = 2 |pages=115–6| doi=10.1007/s10508-005-9002-6|pmid=16752115|year=2006|s2cid=1818254}}</ref> ] Jay Feierman considers infantilism a form of ] in which the infantilist desires a sexual partner of the same biological age, but their own "sexuoerotic age" does not match his or her own biological age (i.e. the adult infantilist wishes an adult sexual partner who treats them as a baby).<ref>{{cite book|last=Feierman|first=Jay R.|title=Pedophilia: biosocial dimensions|publisher=Springer-Verlag|year=1990|isbn=978-0-387-97243-5 | page = 455}}</ref> A 2011 ] in the '']'' reviewed several case studies and noted a common history of sexual abuse.<ref name="Kise"/>

==History==
The first public event for adult babies was "Baby Week", occurring in ] in the early 1990s. Subsequently, the internet became a major forum, with numerous websites offering books, magazines, audio and video tapes and related ], as well as a 24-hour hotline. Paraphilic infantilism has appeared as an ] in numerous ] countries including the ], ], ] and ].<ref>{{cite journal |last= Kaufman | first = F |year= 1997 |title= Our Binkies, Our Selves: The adult baby boom |journal= ] |volume= 13|issue= 7|pages= | issn = 0886-3032 }}</ref>

The organization "Diaper Pail Friends" was established in San Francisco, growing to approximately 3,000 members in 1995 through magazine articles, books, talk shows and the Internet. The organization was studied in 1995 by a group of sexologists, though the results were not published.<ref>{{cite book |editor1= Noonan R | pages = 1248–9 | url = http://www.iub.edu/~kinsey/ccies/pdf/ccies-unitedstates-part2.pdf | title = The Continuum Complete International Encyclopedia of Sexuality | isbn = 978-0-8264-1488-5 | publisher = The Continuum International Publishing Group Inc. | year = 2004 | access-date = 2011-08-31 | archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20120405142329/http://www.iub.edu/~kinsey/ccies/pdf/ccies-unitedstates-part2.pdf | archive-date = 2012-04-05 | url-status = dead }}</ref> In 2001, the ] organization "Still in Diapers" was founded for diaper fetishists.<ref name="taormino"/> In 2008, the Diaper Pail Friends had expanded to a national organization and claimed a membership of 15,000.<ref name = holmes/>

In 2016, Tykables opened the first wholly dedicated paraphilic infantilism physical retail store in ], with controversy from the local community.<ref>{{cite web |last=Rice |first=Mae |url=http://chicagoist.com/2016/06/09/some_adults_have_to_wear.php |title=Store Aimed At Adult Babies, Tykables, Opens In Mount Prospect |publisher=Chicagoist |date=2016-06-09 |access-date=2017-07-08 |url-status=dead |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20160612080113/http://chicagoist.com/2016/06/09/some_adults_have_to_wear.php |archive-date=2016-06-12 }}</ref> The store owner believes it helps to break the stigma about the community.<ref>{{cite news|url=https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/tykables-adult-baby-storefront_us_58d127f7e4b0be71dcf7e9ba|title=Inside The Misunderstood World Of Adult Baby Diaper Lovers|first=Noah|last=Michelson|date=21 March 2017|newspaper=Huffington Post|access-date=6 March 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180306164827/https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/tykables-adult-baby-storefront_us_58d127f7e4b0be71dcf7e9ba|archive-date=6 March 2018|url-status=live}}</ref>

===Historical terminology and definitions===
The original definition of "''infantilism''" meant the persistence of childlike traits in adults and, medically, the failure of an adult to attain sexual maturity.<ref>{{cite web |title=Infantilism |url=http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/infantilism |url-status=live |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20110927230525/http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/infantilism |archive-date=2011-09-27 |access-date=2011-08-24 |publisher=dictionary.com}}</ref> While "''sexual'' infantilism" has also been used medically as a synonym for ].<ref name="Hickey" /><ref>{{cite book |last=Greenspan |first=FS |url=https://archive.org/details/isbn_9780071402972/page/617 |title=Basic & Clinical Endocrinology |author2=Gardner DG |year=2004 |isbn=978-0-07-140297-2 |pages= |chapter=Puberty|publisher=Lange Medical Books/McGraw-Hill }}</ref>

Similarly, the term "''psychosexual'' infantilism" was first used in ]'s theory of ] to refer to individuals who had not matured through his hypothesized stages.<ref name="Cantor" />

] ] later used the term "psychosexual infantilism" as a category (similar to how ] is used today), which would have included paraphilic infantilism{{sfn|Stekel|1952|pp=143–144}} and other fetishes, as well as sexual orientations.{{sfn|Stekel|1952|p=vii}}

] ] initially coined the term "nepiophilia" to describe attraction to diaper-wearing babies''. "''Nepon''"'' is Greek for infant.{{sfn|Money|1986|p=70}}<ref>{{cite book |last=Money |first=John |author-link=John Money |title=The Destroying Angel: Sex, Fitness and Food in the Legacy of Degeneracy Theory, Graham Crackers, Kellogg's Corn Flakes and American Health History |publisher=] |year=1985 |isbn=978-0-87975-277-4 |page=147}}</ref> In 1984, Money coined another different term, "''auto''nepiophilia"<ref>{{cite book |last=Corsini |first=Raymond J. |url=https://books.google.com/books?id=0uxnglHzYaoC&pg=PA374 |title=The Dictionary of Psychology |publisher=Psychology Press |year=2002 |isbn=978-1-58391-328-4 |access-date=2016-02-21 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20170818035836/https://books.google.com/books?id=0uxnglHzYaoC&pg=PA374 |archive-date=2017-08-18 |url-status=live}}</ref> to describe "diaperism" (]) or the desire of an individual to ''themselves'' "become" or act as a baby, without having any ].<ref>{{cite book |last=Money |first=John |title=Principles of Developmental Sexology |publisher=] |year=1997 |isbn=978-0-8264-1026-9 |page=255 |author-link=John Money}}</ref><ref name="Money84">{{Cite journal |last1=Money |first1=J. |author-link=John Money |year=1984 |title=Paraphilias: Phenomenology and classification |journal=American Journal of Psychotherapy |volume=38 |issue=2 |pages=164–179 |doi=10.1176/appi.psychotherapy.1984.38.2.164 |pmid=6234812}}</ref>

In 2003, Dr. Jennifer Pate and Dr. Glen Gabbard, coined the term "adult baby ''syndrome''" (inspired by an episode of the fictional medical television drama ]) to describe an extreme case of infantilism,<ref name="pate" /> which would have been on the level of what is currently considered a "paraphilic ''disorder''" as defined by the ].

Today, the term "''paraphilic infantilism''" can be considered a clinical term for the fetish, while the more common term "''adult baby''" is used colloquially. Another term, "''AB/DL''" (also written "ABDL"), is often used as a broad, non-specific, and inclusive ] for the wider community of people who engage in "adult baby" play, ], or various other associated interests, both sexual and platonic in nature. The exact origins of the nicknames "adult baby" and "AB/DL" are difficult to determine, but there is evidence to suggest that these names have been in kink community for decades.{{Citation needed|date=August 2023}}


== See also == == See also ==
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==Notes==
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==References== ==References==
* {{cite book | last = Money | first = J | author-link = John Money | year = 1986 | title = Love Maps - Clinical Concepts of Sexual/Erotic Health and Pathology, Paraphilia, and Gender Transposition in Childhood, Adolescence, and Maturity | publisher = ] | location = New York | isbn = 978-0-8290-1589-8 }}

* {{cite book | last = Stekel | first = W | author-link = Wilhelm Stekel | year = 1952 | title = Patterns of Psychosexual Infantilism | publisher = Washington Square Press | isbn = 978-0-87140-840-2 }}
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==Further reading== ==Further reading==
* {{cite book | last = Love | first = B | year = 1992 | title = Encyclopedia of Unusual Sex Practices | publisher = Barricade Books | isbn = 978-0-942637-64-9}}
*Friday, Nancy (c. 1980). ''Men in Love: Men's Sexual Fantasies'', Delacorate Press. ISBN 0-385-33342-0.
*Allen, Clifford (1969). ''A Textbook of Psychosexual Disorders''. ISBN 0-19-264414-9.
*Love, Brenda (1992). ''Encyclopedia of Unusual Sex Practices'', Barricade Books. ISBN 0-942637-64-X.
*Torkenzy, Ferenc (2002) ''Furries, Babies, and Other Sexual Perversions'', Adions Press ISBN 0-17-324415-9

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* - Extensive information about diaper fetishism and infantilism from a non-sexual view. (German language)
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* - Site listing typical items used by adult babies in a simple way.

'''Articles on infantilism and diaper fetishism:'''
*Pate J.E., Gabbard G.O. (2003). ''Am J Psychiatry'' 160:1932–1936, also available as a
*Tristan Taormino, Retrieved ] ] from http://www.villagevoice.com/people/0233,taormino,37378,24.html


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Role-playing of an infant-like state

Paraphilic infantilism, also known as adult baby (or "AB", for short), is a form of ageplay that involves role-playing a regression to an infant-like state. Like other forms of adult play, depending on the context and desires of the people involved paraphilic infantilism may be expressed as a non-sexual fetish, kink, or simply as a comforting platonic activity. People who practice adult baby play are often colloquially referred to (by themselves and others) as "adult babies", or "ABs".

Behaviors vary, but may include things such as wearing childish clothes, wearing and using diapers, cuddling with stuffed animals, drinking from a bottle or sucking on a pacifier, and (when done with others) engaging in gentle, nostalgic and nurturing experiences, baby talk, or BDSM power dynamics involving masochism, coercion, punishment or humiliation.

Paraphilic infantilism is often associated with diaper fetishism, a separate but related activity in which people derive pleasure or ecstasy from themselves or others wearing or using diapers, but without necessarily involving any form of ageplay. People with a diaper fetish are often informally called "diaper lovers", or "DLs". In practice, however, these strict labels do not always reflect the true diversity of expression. As such, when considered together, paraphilic infantilism and diaper fetishism form a spectrum of behaviors that are often colloquially referred to under the umbrella term "adult baby/diaper lover", or "AB/DL" (also written "ABDL").

Like other sexual fetishes (paraphilias), there is no single recognized psychological origin for paraphilic infantilism and very little research has been done on the subject as of yet. A variety of theories have been proposed for fetish development in general, including unique lovemaps, imprinting or altered erotic targets, though there no scientific consensus has emerged. Though it varies from person to person, paraphilic infantilism may sometimes be linked to masochism, urolagnia, garment fetishes or other consensual kinks.

Characteristics and practices

Paraphilic infantilists (usually colloquially called "adult babies" or "ABs") are people who derive sexual pleasure and/or emotional comfort from imagining themselves as, and pretending to be, children. It is a specific form of ageplay and, more broadly, sexual role-play, that can be practiced alone or with consenting adult partners. As a paraphilia (a fetish or kink), paraphilic infantilism may represent an atypical sexual interest but is not usually associated with any psychological disorder or poor mental health, and adult baby play can be considered a conscious and valid act of sexual expression. In addition, some people participate in adult baby play purely for the positive feeling and emotional comfort associated with childhood and being cared for; to what degree (if at all) eroticism plays a role depends heavily on the participants and context.

Whether performed solo or with others, one large part of paraphilic infantilism can be dressing in childish clothes (diapers, onesies, bodysuits, overalls or shortalls, rompers, plastic pants, and other clothing with cute patterns, bright colors and child-like design elements) and adorning oneself with childish accessories (pacifiers, baby bottles, stuffed animals, toys, stickers or temporary tattoos, nursery-style furniture, etc.) along with other behaviors such as eating while sitting in a highchair, sleeping in a crib, or swinging in a swing. As such, depending on the person it may or may not be associated with a variety of garment and object fetishes, like diaper fetishism.

Another large part of adult baby expression can be behaving like a child or engaging in childish activities. This may include crawling or sitting on the floor and playing with toys or games, drawing in coloring books, consuming food or drinks associated with childhood (juiceboxes, chicken nuggets, gummy candies, etc.), breastfeeding, using ("wetting" or "messing") diapers or other clothes and being changed, reading or watching children's entertainment, taking naps or cuddling (with partners or stuffed toys), engaging in baby talk, etc.

Relationship dynamics

When engaging in paraphilic infantilism with partners, various dynamics are possible and participants may take up a variety of different roles, including one or more participants acting as "littles" (adult age players), while others may function as "caregivers" (or "CGs") or "switches" (people whose role may change during or between scenes). This relatively common dynamic is generally referred to as "caregiver/little", or "CG/L".

After consent, rules and play roles are established, the interaction between the little and their partner(s) can take on different forms depending on the desires of the people involved and the nature of the scene. During more nurturing scenes, the little may be cared for or comforted by their caregiver (for example, being cuddled, fed, having their diapers changed, etc.) In this case, the adult baby may want only gentle or comforting treatment, based on the desire to be cared for or to "surrender the responsibilities of adult life". In other types scenes, the presence of BDSM dynamics might involve being talked down to, being denied adult treatment, activities or facilities (for example, toileting restrictions), as well as scolded, spanked or chastised for misbehaving, acting out, having wet or dirtied their diapers, etc. In this latter instance the mode of arousal is at least partially masochistic.

Potential participants may prefer one specific type of scene over others, or they might enjoy taking part in various different types of scenes.

Sexuality

Adult baby play may also involve masturbation or sexual intercourse between consenting adult partners. However, some may choose not to engage in conventional sexual activities (either because it detracts from their ability to role-play being in a baby-like state, or because their interest in paraphilic infantilism is non-sexual and motivated by feelings of comfort or being cared for).

Like many other fetishes, the erotic pleasure derived solely from paraphilic infantilism may partially or completely replace the need for conventional sex in reaching orgasm, though it depends on the individual and their level of sexual interest.

Prevalence

Meaningful information on the incidence or prevalence of any paraphilias is lacking due to the private (and often taboo) nature of such practices. Similarly, it has been observed that adult baby play is often a closeted activity and it is not yet well documented in medical literature.

In one study of AB/DL website participants, 93% of the sample was male (assigned male at birth, excluding transgender individuals). 58% of the men and 34% of the women were heterosexual. Males on average first became interested in AB/DL at age 11, and started practicing it at the age of 13, compared to the ages of 12 and 16 for females, respectively. The most frequent activities were wearing diapers, wetting, and using other baby items. 87% of the men and 91% of the women reported that their AB/DL had not caused any significant problems or distress.

It also reported that 9% of Yahoo groups devoted to fetishes dealt with paraphilic infantilism, which was high in relation to other fetishes. The same study, however, noted that males became interested in paraphilic infantilism earlier than females, at age 11 rather than 12, and also began to act on their interests earlier, at 13 rather than 16. It also found that while most males interested in paraphilic infantilism were primarily heterosexual (58%), most females were primarily bisexual (43%). 34% of women were primarily heterosexual. Although both men and women varied in terms of education, only 66% of men and 39% of women earned more than $25,000 a year.

Because atypical sexual behaviors which do not cause functional impairment, personal distress, danger to others, or have legal implications are generally not considered to be unhealthy or have psychiatric significance, people who practice closeted fetish activities like paraphilic infantilism are often not under the purview of psychiatric awareness and knowledge. Likewise, many people who engage in paraphilias do not consider themselves as suffering from a medical condition and do not feel a need or lasting desire to change their behavior. Individuals who practice paraphilic infantilism may only seek therapy for other unrelated issues or, if discovered by others, be encouraged or coerced to seek treatment pertaining directly to the paraphilia itself. This, however, makes it difficult to know the exact prevalence and distribution of kinks among the general population, thus highlighting the potential of anonymous internet surveys for data collection on the AB/DL community.

Relation to other behaviors

Infantilism is a diffuse phenomenon and different authorities have taken varied approaches to the question of its medical and sexological classification.

With diaper fetishism

Main article: Diaper fetishism

Strictly speaking, people with a diaper fetish are aroused by the idea of wearing diapers as an adult, and may not participate in any form of ageplay. Practically speaking, there can be a great deal of variation and overlap between paraphilic infantilists and diaper fetishists, and the term "AB/DL" can be used as a catch-all term which includes a broad spectrum of related kinks and behaviors. As diapers are a commonly used a prop for "adult baby" role-play, diaper fetishism may be considered a potential component of paraphilic infantilism.

Sexologist John Money distinguished between paraphilic infantilism (or autonepiophilia) and paraphilic diaper-wearing, stating that the latter is a paraphilic fetish that manifests as an erotic attraction to an article of clothing while the former is a non-fetishistic paraphilia directed at a change of status in terms of age identity.

With BDSM

Main article: BDSM See also: Sadomasochism

In some cases, paraphilic infantilism can involve elements of BDSM. For example, the pseudo-forced used of childish clothing and/or diapers as a way of establishing a power dynamic of dominance and submission, as well as for scenes involving punishment and humiliation.

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) states that along with other behaviors, sexual masochists "...may have a desire to be treated as a helpless infant and clothed in diapers ('infantilism')" and this association is repeated by others. Masochism appears to be particularly important for female infantilists.

Psychologists D. Richard Laws and William O'Donohue state that "Although infantilism is classified as a sexual masochism in the DSM-IV and DSM-IV-TR, it is questionable whether the criteria for sexual masochism are always met. For example, if the infantile role playing does not involve feelings of humiliation and suffering, then the diagnosis of sexual masochism would not be appropriate and a diagnosis of infantilism as a paraphilia is warranted." Sexologist John Money, in his book Lovemaps describes paraphilic infantilism as a possible "...adjunctive to masochistic discipline and humiliation." Sexologist William B. Arndt considers paraphilic infantilism to combine forms of fetishism, transvestism and masochism. Wilhelm Stekel considered sado-masochistic practices to be variant behavior arising from psychosexual infantilism.

A potential connection between paraphilic infantilism and sadomasochism has been noted in the Polish publication, Przegląd Seksuologiczny. Research results within the publication indicated that 28% of those paraphilic infantilists surveyed reported an interest in BDSM.

With cross-dressing

Main article: Cross-dressing

Some adult babies may also engage in cross-dressing by wearing clothes which are stereotypically associated with the opposite gender. This subset of the AB community is typically made up of males dressing in "feminine" styles of clothing. (This specific behavior is often referred to as being a "sissy baby".) People who are attracted to masochistic forms of infantilism may participate in forcible cross-dressing.

With furry fandom

Main article: Furry fandom

At the intersection of paraphilic infantilism, diaper fetishism and the furry fandom exist the "babyfur" and "diaperfur" subgenres.

Like others in the furry fandom, "babyfurs" and "diaperfurs" enjoy creating and roleplaying as unique and personalized animal characters, but generally with characters that may be considered younger, exhibit anthropomorphic childlike qualities, wear diapers (potentially under and/or over a fursuit), etc.

Versus pedophilia

Main article: Pedophilia

Paraphilic infantilism is not to be confused or conflated with pedophilia, as "adult babies" (adults who engage in paraphilic infantilism) are only participating in sexual role-play, either by themselves or with consenting adult partners. People with this fetish are not as a rule attracted to children and do not seek them as sexual partners, and paraphilic infantilism is not related to pedophilia or any form of child sexual abuse. Sexologist Gloria Brame states that "...infantilists who recognize and accept their sexuality - and its possible roots in infantile trauma - tend to be acutely protective of real children."

In 1993, sexologists Ray Blanchard and Kurt Freund published and discussed a series of case studies involving paraphilic infantilists and noted a distinction between them and pedophiles. Pedophiles are sexually attracted to children and desire for a child sexual partner. In contrast, paraphilic infantilists merely imagine and role-play themselves as a child (usually by adopting the objects and mannerisms of childhood) to increase the power difference between themselves and their preferred adult sexual partners with whom they acted out masochistic fantasies.

Criminologists Stephen and Ronald Holmes believe that while there is no simple answer to the origins of infantilism, the practices may involve an element of stress reduction similar to that of transvestism. These criminologists state that this paraphilia is not inherently a crime in and of itself, and differ it from child sex abuse.

Psychology

Clinical significance

See also: Paraphilia

Like all kinks, paraphilic infantilism can be considered an atypical sexual interest, but that alone is neither problematic nor indicative of poor mental health. Since the mid-2010s, the general psychiatric consensus around paraphilias (fetishes and kinks) as declared in the DSM-5 (2013) and ICD-11 (2019) psychiatric manuals is that "most people with atypical sexual interests do not have a mental disorder".

As part of the intentional depathologization of atypical sexual interests, the medical community has made an effort to draw a clear distinction between safe and healthy expressions of paraphilia and paraphilic disorders. For safe and consensual behaviors like paraphilic infantilism and other forms of adult roleplay to rise to the level of being considered a paraphilic disorder (and thus a potential mental health issue) one must feel significant personal (and not merely socially-imposed) distress around their interests or their effects on one's life. Likewise, people who are happy and comfortable with their kinks are not to be considered mentally unhealthy in any way.

As such, the goal of therapy for the treatment of otherwise safe and consensual paraphilic disorders is typically the management of distress, shame, and other lasting negative feelings around their unique interests.

Etiology

Research on the etiology of paraphilias in general is minimal and as of 2008 had essentially come to a standstill; it is not clear whether the development of paraphilic infantilism shares a common cause with other paraphilias. A 2003 case report by psychiatrists Jennifer Pate and Glen Goddard found little research on the topic.

To date no broad-based scientific studies have been made on the cause, incidence and general impact of paraphilic infantilism on society at large. This may be due to both the rarity of the practice and because few paraphilic infantilists appear to seek professional mental health counseling pertaining directly to the paraphilia. A mental health evaluation of an 80 year old paraphillic infantilist whose paraphilia may have been related to a head injury at the age of six concluded that treatment was unwarranted.

An online survey conducted in 2020 indicated that "adults with interest in ABDL showed the presence of anxious traits and recollections of parental rejection during childhood."

Lovemap theory

Sexologist John Money developed the theory of a lovemap,

"A developmental representation or template in the mind and in the brain depicting the idealized lover and the idealized program of sexual and erotic activity projected in imagery or actually engaged in".

Money thought that the lovemap was normally fully developed by the age of 8, serving as a kind of sexual template through to the end of one's adult life. Money believed all paraphilias were caused by the formation of abnormal lovemaps during the preadolescent years and that such abnormal lovemaps can be formed by any number of contributing factors or stressors during this developmental period.

Imprinting theory

It has been hypothesized that, among other possible causes, sexual templates are established by a process akin to imprinting where lack of availability of female genitals during a critical period of development causes the imprinting mechanism to instead associate with the nearest visual or olfactory approximation. In the case of infantilism, the discipline of the mother or wearing diapers may create associations between pain, humiliation and sexuality.

Similarly, authors Zack Cernovsky and Yves Bureau hypothesize that erotic fixation to diapers may parallel a study conducted by Harry Harlow in which he deprived infant monkeys of their natural mothers and gave them an artificial mother made of wire and another made of cloth; the monkeys were more likely to spend more time with the mothers made of cloth.

Erotic location target error theory

An additional theory is that infantilism is an erotic identity disorder where the erotic fantasy is centered on the self rather than on a sexual partner and results from an erotic targeting location error where the erotic target was children yet becomes inverted. According to this model, proposed by Ray Blanchard and Kurt Freund in 1993, infantilism is a sexual attraction to the idea of the self being a child. However, this theory has also been criticized for being a "slippery slope" which "pathologizes nonstandard sexual expression".

Psychodynamic regression theories

In psychoanalytic theory, Regression (German: Regression) is a defense mechanism involving the reversion of the ego to an earlier stage of psychosexual development, as a reaction to an overwhelming external problem or internal conflict. A study published in 2019 stated a correlation between childhood maltreatment and paraphilic infatilism and related fetishes. The regression theories in the psychodynamic area hypothesise that during sexual activities, individuals may subconsciously regress to an early state of childhood for comfort and pleasure, with some masochistic elements attached to the same.

Other theories

In the limited number of extant medical case reports some clinicians have attempted to explain the behaviors associated with infantilism in terms of obsessive compulsive disorder, as "a concurrent cluster of symptoms found in a variety of psychiatric disorders." Psychiatrist Jay Feierman considers infantilism a form of chronophilia in which the infantilist desires a sexual partner of the same biological age, but their own "sexuoerotic age" does not match his or her own biological age (i.e. the adult infantilist wishes an adult sexual partner who treats them as a baby). A 2011 letter to the editor in the Archives of Sexual Behavior reviewed several case studies and noted a common history of sexual abuse.

History

The first public event for adult babies was "Baby Week", occurring in San Francisco in the early 1990s. Subsequently, the internet became a major forum, with numerous websites offering books, magazines, audio and video tapes and related paraphernalia, as well as a 24-hour hotline. Paraphilic infantilism has appeared as an alternative lifestyle in numerous Western countries including the United States, England, Germany and Australia.

The organization "Diaper Pail Friends" was established in San Francisco, growing to approximately 3,000 members in 1995 through magazine articles, books, talk shows and the Internet. The organization was studied in 1995 by a group of sexologists, though the results were not published. In 2001, the New York organization "Still in Diapers" was founded for diaper fetishists. In 2008, the Diaper Pail Friends had expanded to a national organization and claimed a membership of 15,000.

In 2016, Tykables opened the first wholly dedicated paraphilic infantilism physical retail store in Mount Prospect, Illinois, with controversy from the local community. The store owner believes it helps to break the stigma about the community.

Historical terminology and definitions

The original definition of "infantilism" meant the persistence of childlike traits in adults and, medically, the failure of an adult to attain sexual maturity. While "sexual infantilism" has also been used medically as a synonym for delayed puberty.

Similarly, the term "psychosexual infantilism" was first used in Sigmund Freud's theory of psychosexual development to refer to individuals who had not matured through his hypothesized stages.

Psychologist Wilhelm Stekel later used the term "psychosexual infantilism" as a category (similar to how paraphilia is used today), which would have included paraphilic infantilism and other fetishes, as well as sexual orientations.

Sexologist John Money initially coined the term "nepiophilia" to describe attraction to diaper-wearing babies. "Nepon" is Greek for infant. In 1984, Money coined another different term, "autonepiophilia" to describe "diaperism" (diaper fetishism) or the desire of an individual to themselves "become" or act as a baby, without having any attraction to actual infants.

In 2003, Dr. Jennifer Pate and Dr. Glen Gabbard, coined the term "adult baby syndrome" (inspired by an episode of the fictional medical television drama ER) to describe an extreme case of infantilism, which would have been on the level of what is currently considered a "paraphilic disorder" as defined by the DSM-5.

Today, the term "paraphilic infantilism" can be considered a clinical term for the fetish, while the more common term "adult baby" is used colloquially. Another term, "AB/DL" (also written "ABDL"), is often used as a broad, non-specific, and inclusive shorthand for the wider community of people who engage in "adult baby" play, diaper play, or various other associated interests, both sexual and platonic in nature. The exact origins of the nicknames "adult baby" and "AB/DL" are difficult to determine, but there is evidence to suggest that these names have been in kink community for decades.

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