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:::I agree with North8000 and Epipelagic. Anyone without experience of some of the POV wars has no understanding of (a) the purpose of Misplaced Pages (to build an encyclopedia); or (b) the chaos caused by those POV pushers who manage to adapt to CIVIL; or (c) the pathetic inability of any noticeboard (particularly DR and Arbcom) to deal with the problem. ] (]) 06:48, 29 July 2013 (UTC) :::I agree with North8000 and Epipelagic. Anyone without experience of some of the POV wars has no understanding of (a) the purpose of Misplaced Pages (to build an encyclopedia); or (b) the chaos caused by those POV pushers who manage to adapt to CIVIL; or (c) the pathetic inability of any noticeboard (particularly DR and Arbcom) to deal with the problem. ] (]) 06:48, 29 July 2013 (UTC)
::::Quite some time ago, after some extraordinary run-ins with the niceness police, I made a ] to stop swearing and to stick to lying, as I had perceived was common among those who couldn't cope with the language I am used to using where I work and live. I have since had trouble over a couple of "bullshits" that slipped out, but seriously.... ] (]) 08:49, 29 July 2013 (UTC) ::::Quite some time ago, after some extraordinary run-ins with the niceness police, I made a ] to stop swearing and to stick to lying, as I had perceived was common among those who couldn't cope with the language I am used to using where I work and live. I have since had trouble over a couple of "bullshits" that slipped out, but seriously.... ] (]) 08:49, 29 July 2013 (UTC)

:::::We should evolve wp:civility based on the above, to help make wikipedia less of such a vicious and nasty place. <font color ="#0000cc">''North8000''</font> (]) 12:09, 29 July 2013 (UTC)


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So, this may be a dumb idea, but...

I was thinking last night about civility and the apparent longstanding difficulty Misplaced Pages has in dealing with it. (I am deliberately not invoking names or past blowups I've read about, so if a discussion happens here maybe we can keep it to general principles? I think that would be awesome).

WP:CIVIL, as a Thing, is just bloody hard to enforce in any meaningful way. But there is a policy that's actually really easy to enforce, and I don't really understand how it's not used in civility/NPA issues. (And hey maybe someone has thought this before. I admit I didn't comb through the archives because that way lies madness and a rabbithole like TVTropes).

WP:BLP, in a nutshell, says "Don't say shit about people that isn't supported, kthx."

Would it be a terrible idea to reorganize the concepts of WP:CIVIL and WP:NPA and just use WP:BLP as the basis for any blocks/enforcement/finger-wagging? Different countries have different standards of civility which is a big problem... but basically anything that really is a problem is something that would get an editor blocked pretty quickly for if they ever did it in an article. And BLP states that it applies to every page on Misplaced Pages, and unless I'm mistaken all editors are live human beings, so BLP applies.

What does everyone think? I haven't worked out all the details in my head, but it seemed like it might be a good approach, and would have positive effects on traditionally unpleasant areas like AfD and RfA and so on. — The Potato Hose 20:04, 3 June 2013 (UTC)

Proposed addition to policy (no escalating block lengths)

Yes, this is in part motivated by recent events, but it is something I've been thinking about for quite some time (See User:Adjwilley/CERFC#Appropriate sanctions). At issue is the tendency for administrators to exponentially increase the block length for repeat offenders (24 hours, 2 days, 1 week, 2 weeks, 1 month, etc.). This practice is supported by some broad guidelines given in WP:Blocking policy which state, "incidents of disruptive behavior typically result in 24 hour blocks, longer for successive violations" and "Blocks may escalate in duration if problems recur." While these guidelines work fine in general, they don't seem to be working on the Civility front (certain recent events come to mind). In short, if the amount of disruption resulting from application of the Civility policy exceeds the amount of disruption caused by the incivility itself, then the policy should be changed or applied differently. That said, here is my suggestion, in the context of a couple other options. (In all cases, we are assuming a repeat civility offender who otherwise makes positive contributions to the project.)

Extended content (table showing options)
Available options
Option A
Apply policy as written (i.e. no change)
Option B
Do not apply policy, don't block for incivility
Option C
Modify Civility policy to eliminate escalating blocks
Event: Long term content contributor makes their n civility violation, lashing out and calling somebody a name. Administrator blocks contributor for a month, causing an immediate outcry in the community followed by hundreds or thousands of man-hours of discussion at administrator noticeboards, talk pages, Arbcom, etc. Productive editors get mad and leave the project in protest, admins turn in their tools, the project is consumed in the drama for days. Eventually the block is shortened to "time served" whether it be 12 hours or a few days, unless a sympathetic admin unblocks prematurely, causing even more drama. Nobody does anything about the incivility. The offender is free to lash out at anyone and gets off free with few consequences. Misplaced Pages becomes an uncivil place, and the project looses the thinner-skinned editors. Administrator blocks contributor for 24 hours. There may be a small outcry, accompanied perhaps by an unblock request, but because the block duration is short, it's a low-importance problem for the community, and any resulting drama has a time limit, because after 24 hours it doesn't matter anymore.
How the offending editor feels Stunned by the block length; "oh crap!"; I hate administrators! Why do I give my time to this stupid website? What am I going to do for the next month? Fight tooth an nail to get unblocked, cause drama. Great, no worries. "Crap, I did it again." I hate administrators! This is getting annoying.
How the community feels Community polarized: Some sympathize with the editor (we shouldn't block at all for incivility), many feel the block is overkill/too long, many are glad the perpetrator got punished Editors who are ok with incivility are fine, those who aren't are sad. Some will still sympathize with the editor, those who think incivility should be punished will see their punishment, few if any will complain about the block length.
Pros *Blocking policy is applied more uniformly across Misplaced Pages. *Editors with chronic incivility will eventually be banned from Misplaced Pages (whether or not this is a pro or con is debatable.) Editors will be "Uncensored" and can say whatever they like. *Civility policy is enforced enough that most editors will get the point after a single block. *Repeat offenders can be kept as editors, while minimizing the disruption caused by jaw-dropping-length blocks. *The punishment will better "fit the crime". *Net drama is reduced, more editors are retained.
Cons *Lots of drama, lots of wasted time. *Often ends in an early unblock (similar to Option C, only with extra bitterness and acrimony). *Cycle repeats itself. *Editors lost as a result (does not contribute to goal of "Building an Encyclopedia"). *Incivility runs rampant. *A majority of editors would never agree to ignoring the Civility policy. *Editors would be lost. *Cycle repeats itself. *Blocking policy wouldn't be as uniform. *Long-term offenders would be less-motivated to "get the point".
Proposal and discussion; not much support for proposal; withdrawn by proposer
The following discussion has been closed. Please do not modify it.

Specifically: I suggest the following be added to the #Blocking for incivility section:

Typically block lengths for incivility should be less than 24 hours, even for repeat offenders. A 24 hour block length is long enough for most editors to understand that incivility is not acceptable. For repeat civility offenders who otherwise make positive contributions to the project, benefits from dramatically escalated block lengths are outweighed by the time dealing with block reviews, unblock requests, and drama in the community. (If an offender is not making positive contributions to the project, they should be blocked indefinitely as a troll.)

Please let me know of any suggestions you have for this. If there is a hint of consensus for this, I would like to eventually start an RfC and get it added to the policy. ~Adjwilley (talk) 18:41, 6 July 2013 (UTC)

Excellent, thanks, although I would replace "as a troll" with "as not here to build an encyclopedia". The tricky part will be getting others to see that some kind of compromise would benefit the encyclopedia. Those emphasizing civility fail to notice the poking which leads to the outbursts, or claim that it is ok to poke someone so long as no bad words are used. All that is needed to deal with the problem would be a small number of untruncated 24-hour blocks with community support. Month-long blocks are guaranteed to be unhelpful, as are comments like "it's your problem if you think a few words are offensive" from the other side. Due to the enormous history of the recent case, I'm not sure tweaking a policy will be sufficient—I think it may also be necessary to encourage supporters to delete unhelpful posts from the editor's talk page. That would need community support to avoid drama from the misguided, but my sampling suggests that a large number of problems would be avoided if the misguided were directed elsewhere. Johnuniq (talk) 03:23, 7 July 2013 (UTC)
Could you please be more specific about what doesn't work in practice? What part doesn't work and why? (I'm just trying to understand.) ~Adjwilley (talk) 04:41, 7 July 2013 (UTC)
Some people are not deterred by 24 hour blocks. --Rschen7754 04:42, 7 July 2013 (UTC)
I see. I believe that you are correct that there will be a few who won't be deterred... but is that really so bad? The question I'm asking is, with the community so deeply divided over the civility issue, what is the path of least disruption? Is stamping out the few uncivil editors who refuse to reform so important to the project that we're willing to spend spend hundreds of man-hours at WP:AN and then sacrifice people like User:Drmies to do it? Anyway, I'm not trying to change your views here, I'm just trying to take a pragmatic compromise approach to a hard problem. ~Adjwilley (talk) 04:55, 7 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Oppose. Really troublesome editors will not respond to a slap on the wrist. And by advocating a non-escalating system of reward (reward = the ability to edit) I think we would be creating more and more really troublesome editors. ```Buster Seven Talk 14:11, 7 July 2013 (UTC)
  • conditional support. Though this proposal needs to be worked out for consensus to be reached, I strongly believe in a statute of limitations on indefinite blocks and bans. There are far too many cases where a block gets issued without warning, and the editor who blocked gets backlash. There are too many cases where editors rely too much on circumstancial evidence and block the wrong person. I therefore believe there should be a system of due process for all editors, given the openness of the site.Just another IP editor (talk) 21:32, 7 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Support Blocking policy is that blocks are not punitive. Admins on both sides of this have already made their arguments, in my opinion they are clearly punitive. On top of that, even if they aren't punitive, longer blocks are meant to deter high level disruption from the wikipedia, this obviously doesn't apply in the case of incivility. Also, the 11th commandment that god bade moses carve on the stones said "Does this need to be spelled out in wikipedia policy 3 times? Really? Would 4 do it? I'm god, I can do it 4 times, but you still probably wouldn't get it.". Finally, the "good" outcome of a long incivility block 90% of the time is just making the user wash their hands of wikipedia and leave forever. Why anyone would think that's a "good" outcome I don't know, but it is easy and it does have the illusion of being productive.TeeTylerToe (talk) 21:52, 7 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Conditional Support and comment I could support this with the condition that a policy similar to the California 3 felony rule were added. (AKA 3 strikes and your out--life sentence automatically). The number wouldn't have to be three. The problem we have, I believe, is an untenable definition of what civility is. I am not saying that is an easy fix either, but therein is the problem. With a ever-moving line that you cannot cross, how do you know when you cross it? Gtwfan52 (talk) 22:44, 7 July 2013 (UTC)
  • know that many admins who spend more time on WP:SPI may oppose this, but they must know they'Re not immune from being disciplined by the community at large. — Preceding unsigned comment added by 174.255.112.7 (talkcontribs)
This proposal wouldn't affect WP:SPI, as far as I can tell...This isn't about eliminating escalating blocks altogether; it's only for civility violations. ~Adjwilley (talk) 16:17, 8 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Oppose. Increased block length rarely seems to make uncivil users any more civil, but it does protect the community and the project from disruptive behavior for longer periods. Limiting block lengths to negligible ones neither eliminates the controversy over "civility", nor protects the project from disruptive behavior the way a longer block would, nor avoids angering the blocked user the way no block at all might; it just perpetuates the same block-unblock-anger cycle we struggle with now. A fluffernutter is a sandwich! (talk) 00:43, 8 July 2013 (UTC)
Granted, the cycle still repeats itself (that was one of the cons I listed in the table above). This isn't the fix-all solution. I basically agree with everything you're saying. The main point of this proposal, though, is to minimize the overall disruption/drama, weighing the disruption caused by an editor occasionally calling people names against the disruption of a highly controversial long-block. ~Adjwilley (talk) 16:11, 8 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Support. Increasing block lengths for incivility are little more than a stick for some admins to badger other editors with. They obviously don't work, though the civility policie might disagree, never mind that one person's incivility is another person's usual rhetoric. Besides there's slippage--one asshole's "asshole" is another asshole's "you're making an assholish comment". Mindy Dirt (talk) 01:09, 8 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Nope. There is a problem with capricious enforcement, but mandatory sentencing isn't the answer; better judgment and better guidance is. Per Fluffernutter, blocks are preventative; a month-long block guarantees Etic won't be calling well-meaning volunteers assholes for a month. --Anthonyhcole (talk · contribs · email) 10:00, 8 July 2013 (UTC)
With all due respect, a month long block also guarantees a huge amount of controversy, a long thread at AN or AN/I, a long, drawn-out unblock request with lots of uninvited parties, and hundreds of well-meaning volunteers wasting hundreds of hours of their time. In my view, that is more disruptive to the encyclopedia than Eric calling people names. ~Adjwilley (talk) 15:51, 8 July 2013 (UTC)
I agree with you that better judgement and guidance is needed..I was trying to go for the guidance part with this proposal. Actually, if Fram had followed the advice already in this policy, things might have gone differently. Point 3 of the "Blocking for incivility" section says, "Civility blocks should be for obvious and uncontentious reasons, because an editor has stepped over the line in a manner nearly all editors can see. In cases where you have reason to suspect this would not be the case – cases where there is reason to believe that taking admin action against someone who was uncivil would not be an uncontentious (or nearly so) prospect – it is expected that discussion will be opened on the matter, via WP:ANI or WP:RFC/U, before any admin action is taken." Fram obviously knew the 30-day block would be controversial, judging by the fact that they took it to WP:AN for review immediately after making it. If they had been following this policy they either would have taken it to AN first, or they would have chosen a shorter block length so that it wouldn't be controversial. Anyway, that's in the past now, and I don't want to derail this thread talking about Eric and Fram, but it is something to think about. The point of this proposal is to try and avoid future disruptions. ~Adjwilley (talk) 16:02, 8 July 2013 (UTC)
  • strong support please see the latest Rfa's edit history. Two admins blocked IPs without warning seemingly to keep IPs away. This is abuse of privileges no doubt. 174.236.70.155 (talk) 00:19, 9 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Oppose Perfection is not expected of editors and many editors have an occasional lapse in judgment. But repeat offenders, by nature of their repeat offenses, need to be dealt with accordingly. If a 24 hour block (for example), fails to address a serious problem then there is no reason that another 24 hour block will solve the problem. A Quest For Knowledge (talk) 00:25, 9 July 2013 (UTC)
    i believe in AGF but the activity shows a sort of retaliation. The admin tools are not toys. 174.236.70.155 (talk) 00:35, 9 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Oppose: I'm not a big fan of fixed-interval blocks at all, and the idea of basically implementing a fixed 24-hour cost for any level of insult just asks for trouble. With the number of people that don't edit on weekends, Fridays would become a free-for-all.—Kww(talk) 00:58, 9 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Oppose. Whether or not escalated extended blocks "work" depend on what you are judging their efficacy based on. They are typically ineffective at changing people's behavior, but they do give other editors a degree of relief from abusive or harassing behavior. Kaldari (talk) 03:03, 25 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Strong Oppose Incivility is probably the number one reason why we lose editors. If anything the civility polisy should be more strongly enforced, to keep bad tempered editors from driving others away. This proposal will just reinforce the attitude of some that, "because I make lots of good edits I am entitled to be rude to the peons". It will be detrimental to the project. FurrySings (talk) 14:44, 25 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Oppose Yes, bad, excessive / unwarranted blocks (typically due to poor or emotional decision-making by admins) are a problem, as is bias in self-reviewing of admin actions by members of their own (admin) club. But to start talking specific block lengths for specific policies is not the way to fix it. North8000 (talk) 14:58, 25 July 2013 (UTC)
  • Oppose. I see the effort here to make an improvement, and thank you for the thoughtfulness of the proposal, but two things bother me; One, per North above, and as well, I oppose identifying editors per their contributions. Incivility is an incivility, Experienced users should if anything be more capable of being civil, of having the experience to behave well and of knowing what the repercussions are are if they don't behave.(olive (talk) 15:15, 25 July 2013 (UTC))
  • Note: I abandoned this proposal two weeks ago based on the early feedback, and proposed an alternate wording without the limits to block length. (Please see the "Break" section immediately below.) The edit I made to the page (which was reverted) made no reference to block length limits, and had received no opposition. If this is an RfC, could we please consider this section closed, and perhaps move on to the revised proposal below? ~Adjwilley (talk) 16:15, 25 July 2013 (UTC)

Break (New proposal without limits on block length)

Thank you all for your comments. It seems clear that the 24-hour limit isn't going to fly... In the spirit of compromise, how does this look? Instead of imposing a 24-hour limit, it advises to carefully weigh the benefits from long or controversial civility blocks against the disruption and drama caused by block reviews and unblock requests. ~Adjwilley (talk) 02:45, 10 July 2013 (UTC)

Does anybody have any objections to this? ~Adjwilley (talk) 18:56, 19 July 2013 (UTC)
At a glance I might replace "drama" with a term less prone to being deprecating, and I would add "potential for" instead of suggesting that it must occur in all cases. DonIago (talk) 19:20, 19 July 2013 (UTC)
Another at a glance reading, I would replace "uncontentious" with "unambiguous". No opinion as yet on whether to support or oppose.--Amadscientist (talk) 19:33, 19 July 2013 (UTC)
I went ahead and made the edit, slightly modified based on the feedback here. I added the sentence: "Benefits derived from long or controversial civility blocks should be weighed carefully against the potential for disruption caused by block reviews, and unblock requests." I figure Amadscientists's suggesting can be implemented in a separate edit, since it doesn't affect the sentence I added. If anybody disagrees feel free to revert or discuss... ~Adjwilley (talk) 21:12, 24 July 2013 (UTC)
Any more thoughts on this? ~Adjwilley (talk) 04:10, 27 July 2013 (UTC)

A Higher Standard

Of the five pillars of Misplaced Pages, it is being upheld by four pillars, and this is not one of them. Misplaced Pages is not doing an effective job of ensuring civility.

I think that it should be mentioned that editors are held to a higher standard of civility in Misplaced Pages than they hold themselves to in live discourse. In live discourse, if you are joking or being sarcastic, that is clear. On the Internet, there are no non-verbal cues. It has been known since 1985 that the lack of non-verbal cues in electronic discussions and the permanence of electronic comments creates a real problem for people who post quickly and then rethink. Because there are no non-verbal cues on the Internet, including in Misplaced Pages, an editor needs to be careful about their comments. You can't just say what you feel like saying, and then think that it will work out. It may, in a live discussion. In Misplaced Pages, or elsewhere in the Internet, what you have posted is there forever. You can apologize, but it isn't necessarily enough to apologize. So think before posting, even to user talk pages.

I will also mention that I have stated on other pages my concern about editors who are said to be "excellent content creators", but who are habitually uncivil. Should "excellent content creators" be given a pass on civility? (Answers are optional, because I just violated my own rule, and was being sarcastic.)

At least since 1985, it has been understood that the lack of non-verbal cues in email can cause problems, especially if people are hostile, sarcastic, or engaged in weird humor. (See http://www.rand.org/pubs/reports/R3283.html)

I think that this policy should be revised and strengthened to include some reference to the permanance of what are thought to be casual insults (there are no casual insults) and the permanence of electronic communication. Comments?

Robert McClenon (talk) 02:02, 27 July 2013 (UTC)

Lovely, so long as the policy can also say something useful about how to deal with the devastating effects of CIVIL editors who push and poke indefinitely. Misplaced Pages does not need more text on being nice—instead, two things are required: a mechanism for cutting off nonsense that passes the CIVIL test, and a reasonable way to handle the case referred to above (hint: over-the-top blocks that are known to upset many good editors are not helpful). Johnuniq (talk) 02:16, 27 July 2013 (UTC)
First, I propose that something be added about the lack of non-verbal cues. Policies don't always need reliable sources, but I have cited one of the oldest reliable sources on netiquette. Robert McClenon (talk) 22:22, 27 July 2013 (UTC)
Second, I agree with User:Johnuniq that the specific case in point was handled badly. I have, on other pages, said that editors such as the one mentioned should be dealt with by the ArbCom (as was the case in 2005 through 2007), because "community consensus" is a will-o-the-wisp. Robert McClenon (talk) 22:22, 27 July 2013 (UTC)
Third, it appears that User:Johnuniq is referring either to civil but tendentious editors who edit with a biased POV, or to editors who try to provoke other editors into incivility. It is not clear which. I agree that both types of editors are problematical. The first should be dealt with by Dispute resolution. Stricter enforcement of civility would make such disputes more likely to be dealt with by dispute resolution than by name-calling, a common practice in disputes. If he is referring to the second, editors who deliberately provoke other editors, I think that deliberate provocation should be viewed as uncivil. Robert McClenon (talk) 22:22, 27 July 2013 (UTC)

I think that you are talking about the tiny little overly small area covered by this policy, and you are probably right about that area. But Misplaced Pages is a very vicious place and this policy completely fails to get into the areas where that occurs and so overall it tolerates and sanctions vicious behavior and so is overall very lenient. My impression is as follows:

  • Editor A says: Dear sir, I just killed your wife and kids and am trying to get you killed. Happy editing! Have a nice day! Editor A will live long and prosper in Misplaced Pages.
  • Editor B says: Hey bro, I read your stuff and it sucks! Editor B will end up banned from Misplaced Pages.

North8000 (talk) 02:34, 27 July 2013 (UTC)

Recently I actually agreed with North8000 on a talk page. Now it isn't clear what he is saying should be done. Is he actually aware of a case where someone discussed a murder that he, the editor, had committed in Misplaced Pages, or is he being sarcastic on the Internet, or what? Robert McClenon (talk) 22:22, 27 July 2013 (UTC)
After spending time at WP:ANI and other noticeboards, the meaning of North8000's comments becomes very clear, and is related to what I wrote above. Many onlookers do not want to take the time to evaluate a case, and so try to judge who is "right" by counting how many bad words each side used. That's an oversimplification, but it's not far off the mark in practice. Someone who satisfies CIVIL can cause enormous disruption. Sending people to WP:DR against a civil POV pusher is saying "we don't care, just go away", and DR will do nothing except swallow another large slab of time and energy, and will almost always not resolve the issue in a manner that helps the encyclopedia. DR only works when there is some rationality on both sides. Johnuniq (talk) 02:19, 28 July 2013 (UTC)
I still don't understand North8000's comment. I think that I addressed Johnuniq's comments. Civil but tendentious editors who push a biased POV are difficult but can be dealt with by dispute resolution. Editors who are civil in the sense of not using offensive words, but who habitually provoke other editors, should be treated as uncivil. I still don't understand North8000's comments about murder. Robert McClenon (talk) 15:07, 28 July 2013 (UTC)


I used "murder" as hyperbole(/metaphor for trying to get someone discredited, banned, blocked, shamed, chased away etc. as a way to further ones ends) to clarify a point. The real viciousness that makes Misplaced Pages such a nasty place is mis-using policies and guidelines to try to do harm to people, includine misstatement/misrepresentaitons etc. regarding them. And those people are clever enough to pretend to be civil while they are doing it and slip under the wp:civil radar. Two real but unnamed editors come to mind that illustrate this:
  • Editor #1 (who I disagree with about 98% of time) uses rough language, and is extremely blunt and rough. I've gone to bat for them at least 2-3 times at noticeboards when they've gotten in trouble for that.
  • Editor #2 is the most vicious warrior that I know of, who is always trying to mis-use the system to get people who stand in the way of their POV quest smacked or banned. They pretend to be sweet when writing, and even have the equivalent of "Have a nice day" embedded in their signature.
I consider editor #1 to be refreshingly blunt, and if they tell me that I'm full of sh*t, I appreciate that they are being straight with me. They do not try to do harm to other editors. and yet they keep getting in trouble with wp:civility. Editor #2 is emblematic of what makes Misplaced Pages such a vicious nasty place, and they never get in trouble with wp:civility. North8000 (talk) 02:10, 29 July 2013 (UTC)
I agree. The worst perpetrators of real incivility and violence on Misplaced Pages are those admins and editors who hunt other editors, particularly highly productive content editors, that they can accuse of or provoke into some form of superficial verbal incivility. These perpetrators, who rarely contribute anything of value to Misplaced Pages articles, then try to get their target banned or blocked, or try to bludgeon them with threats of banning or blocking. Instead of giving this destructive malevolence short shift, these perpetrators are indulged on the drama boards and given barnstars by other perpetrators. As a result, it is no longer possible to have honest and robust disagreements between honest and robust editors on article talk pages. Instead, we have to resort to a sick-making form of doublespeak and politically correct wikietiquette. --Epipelagic (talk) 03:57, 29 July 2013 (UTC)
I agree with North8000 and Epipelagic. Anyone without experience of some of the POV wars has no understanding of (a) the purpose of Misplaced Pages (to build an encyclopedia); or (b) the chaos caused by those POV pushers who manage to adapt to CIVIL; or (c) the pathetic inability of any noticeboard (particularly DR and Arbcom) to deal with the problem. Johnuniq (talk) 06:48, 29 July 2013 (UTC)
Quite some time ago, after some extraordinary run-ins with the niceness police, I made a vow on my User page to stop swearing and to stick to lying, as I had perceived was common among those who couldn't cope with the language I am used to using where I work and live. I have since had trouble over a couple of "bullshits" that slipped out, but seriously.... HiLo48 (talk) 08:49, 29 July 2013 (UTC)
We should evolve wp:civility based on the above, to help make wikipedia less of such a vicious and nasty place. North8000 (talk) 12:09, 29 July 2013 (UTC)

Two Follow-Up Questions

First, is Johnuniq asking about POV-pushers, or about editors whose words appear to be civil but are trying to push or provoke other editors? If the latter, would it be appropriate to treat their behavior as being uncivil? Robert McClenon (talk) 01:54, 29 July 2013 (UTC)

Second, having not spent time to WP:ANI, can someone explain the context of what is being said about the homicide? Is the basic point that the use of "bad" or "inherently offensive" words and phrases is only a part of the civility policy, and that it should not be oversimplified by reducing it to the avoidance of offensive language, but that context is important?

Please see above. Johnuniq (talk) 06:48, 29 July 2013 (UTC)