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===Marriage with Mary Todd Lincoln=== ===Marriage with Mary Todd Lincoln===
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Lincoln and ] met in ] in 1839 and became engaged in 1840.<ref>, About.com</ref> In what historian Allen Guelzo calls "one of the murkiest episodes in Lincoln's life," Lincoln called off his engagement to Mary Todd. This was at the same time as the collapse of a legislative program he had supported for years, the permanent departure of his best friend, Joshua Speed, from Springfield Illinois, and the proposal by John Stuart, Lincoln's law partner, to end their law practice.<ref name=Guelzo>Allen C. Guelzo, ''Abraham Lincoln: Redeemer President,'' (1999) pg.&nbsp;97-98.</ref> Lincoln is believed to have suffered something approaching ]. In the book ''Lincoln's Preparation for Greatness: The Illinois Legislative Years,'' ] has a chapter covering the period, which Lincoln later referred to as "The Fatal First", or January 1, 1841. That was "the date on which Lincoln asked to be released from his engagement to Mary Todd".<ref name="simon"/> Simon explains that the various reasons given for the engagement being broken contradict one another. The incident was not fully documented, but Lincoln did become unusually depressed, which showed in his appearance. Simon wrote that it was "traceable to Mary Todd".<ref name="simon">Paul Simon, ''Lincoln's Preparation for Greatness: The Illinois Legislative Years''</ref> During this time, he avoided seeing Mary, causing her to comment that Lincoln "deems me unworthy of notice".<ref name="simon"/>

], historian and biographer of Mary Todd Lincoln, describes the relationship between Lincoln and his wife as "bound together by three strong bonds—sex, parenting and politics".<ref name=Baker>Jean H. Baker, "Mary and Abraham: A Marriage" in ''The Lincoln Enigma'', edited by Gabor Boritt, pgs. 49-55</ref> In addition to the anti–Mary Todd bias of many historians, engendered by William Herndon's (Lincoln's law partner and early biographer) personal hatred of Mrs. Lincoln, Baker discounts historic criticism of the marriage. She says that contemporary historians have a misunderstanding of the changing nature of marriage and courtship in the mid-19th century, and attempt to judge the Lincoln marriage by modern standards.

Baker states that "most observers of the Lincoln marriage have been impressed with their sexuality". Some "male historians" suggest that the Lincolns' sex life ended either in 1853 after their son Tad's difficult birth or in 1856 when they moved into a bigger house, but have no evidence for their speculations. Baker writes that there are "almost no gynecological conditions resulting from childbirth" other than a ] (which would have produced other noticeable effects on Mrs. Lincoln) that would have prevented intercourse, and in the 1850s, "many middle-class couples slept in separate bedrooms" as a matter of custom adopted from the English.<ref name=Baker/>

Far from abstaining from sex, Baker suggests that the Lincolns were part of a new development in America of smaller families; the birth rate declined from seven births to a family in 1800 to around 4 per family by 1850. As Americans separated sexuality from childbearing, forms of birth control such as ], long-term breastfeeding, and crude forms of condoms and ]s, available through mail order, were available and used. The spacing of the Lincoln children (Robert in 1843, Eddie in 1846, Willie in 1850, and Tad in 1853) is consistent with some type of planning and would have required "an intimacy about sexual relations that for aspiring couples meant shared companionate power over reproduction".<ref>Baker pg.&nbsp;50. Baker relies on (page 286, footnote 36) Linda Gordon's ''Woman's Body, Woman's Right: A Social History of Birth Control'' (1976) and Janet Brodie's ''Contraception and Abortion in 19th Century America'' (1994).</ref>

Herndon, Lincoln's law partner and biographer, attests to the depth of Lincoln's love for ]. An anonymous poem about suicide published locally three years after her death is widely attributed to Lincoln.<ref name=Newyorker2004>, ''The New Yorker'', Eureka Dept., Jun 14, 2004</ref><ref name=prespoetry></ref> In contrast, his courting of Mary Owens was diffident. In 1837, Lincoln wrote to her from Springfield to give her an opportunity to break off their relationship. Lincoln wrote to a friend in 1838: "I knew she was oversize, but now she appeared a fair match for ]".<ref name=letter1837>{{cite web|url=http://memory.loc.gov/cgi-bin/query/r?ammem/mcc:@field(DOCID+@lit(mcc/030))|title=Letter, Abraham Lincoln to Mary S. Owens reflecting the frustration of courtship, 16 August 1837|publisher=Library of Congress}} (Abraham Lincoln Papers)</ref>

===Suggestions of homosexuality or bisexuality===
Commentary on President ]'s sexuality has been documented since the early 20th century. Attention to the sexuality of public figures has been heightened since the gay rights movement in the late 20th century. In his 1926 biography of Lincoln, ] alluded to the early relationship of Lincoln and his friend ] as having "a streak of lavender, and spots soft as May violets". "Streak of ]" was period typical slang for an ] man, and later connoted homosexuality.<ref name=Pollock1935>A. J. Pollock, ''Underworld Speaks'' (1935) p 115/2, cited in ''Oxford English Dictionary.''</ref> Sandburg did not elaborate on this comment.<ref name=Nobile>Philip Nobile, ", ''GMU History News Network'', June 2001</ref>

In 1999, playwright and activist ] claimed that he had uncovered previously unknown documents while conducting research for his work-in-progress, ''The American People: A History''.<ref name=Nuremberg>Kramer, Larry. {{webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20110725041539/http://www.glreview.com/issues/13.5/13.5-kramer.php |date=2011-07-25 }}, ''The Gay & Lesbian Review Worldwide''. September–October 2006.</ref> Some were allegedly found hidden in the floorboards of the old store once shared by Lincoln and ]. The documents reportedly provide explicit details of a relationship between Lincoln and Speed, and currently reside in a private collection in ].<ref name=Lloyd1999>Carol Lloyd , ''Salon'' Ivory Tower May 3, 1999</ref> Their authenticity, however, has been called into question by historians such as ], who wrote, "Almost certainly this is a hoax."<ref name=Boritt2001>Gabor Boritt, ''The Lincoln Enigma: The Changing Faces of an American Icon'', Oxford University Press, 2001, p.xiv.</ref> ] also expressed his skepticism over Kramer's discovery, writing, "Seeing is believing, should that diary ever show up; the passages claimed for it have not the slightest Lincolnian ring."<ref name=Tripp2005>C.A. Tripp, ''The Intimate World of Abraham Lincoln'', pg xxx, Free Press, 2005 {{ISBN|0-7432-6639-0}}</ref>

In 2005, C. A. Tripp's book, ''The Intimate World of Abraham Lincoln'', was posthumously published. Tripp was a sex researcher, a protégé of ], and was gay. He began writing ''The Intimate World of Abraham Lincoln'' with ], but they had a falling out. Nobile later accused Tripp's book of being fraudulent and distorted.<ref name=Smith2005>Smith, Dinitia , December 16, 2004, ''New York Times''</ref><ref name=Nobile2005>Nobile, Philip , ''Weekly Standard,'' Vol 10, Issue 17, 17 January 2005</ref>

'']'' magazine addressed the book as part of a cover article by Joshua Wolf Shenk, author of ''Lincoln's Melancholy: How ] Challenged a President and Fueled His Greatness.'' Shenk dismissed Tripp's conclusions, saying that arguments for Lincoln's homosexuality were "based on a tortured misreading of conventional 19th century sleeping arrangements".<ref name=truelincoln2005>{{cite news|url=http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1077281,00.html|work=Time|title=The True Lincoln|date=June 26, 2005|access-date=May 23, 2010}}</ref> But historian Michael B. Chesson said that Tripp's work was significant, commenting that "any open-minded reader who has reached this point may well have a reasonable doubt about the nature of Lincoln's sexuality".<ref name=Tripp>Michael B. Chesson, "Afterword: 'The Intimate World of Abraham Lincoln'," p. 245, Free Press, 2005, {{ISBN|0-7432-6639-0}}</ref> In contrast, historian and Lincoln biographer ] has said that it is "possible but highly unlikely that Abraham Lincoln was 'predominantly homosexual.'"

In 2009, Charles Morris critically analyzed the academic and popular responses to Tripp's book, arguing that much of the negative response by the "Lincoln Establishment" reveals as much rhetorical and political partisanship as that of Tripp's defenders.<ref name=Morris2009>Charles E. Morris III, "Hard Evidence: The Vexations of Lincoln's Queer Corpus", in ''Rhetoric, Materiality, Politics,'' ed. Barbara Biesecker and John Louis Lucaites (New York: Peter Lang, 2009): 185-213</ref> In an earlier 2007 essay, Morris argues that in the wake of playwright ]'s "outing" of Lincoln, the Lincoln Establishment engaged in "mnemonicide", or the assassination of a threatening counter-memory. He put in this category what he called the methodologically flawed but widely appropriated case against the "gay Lincoln thesis" by David Herbert Donald in his book, ''We Are Lincoln Men''.<ref>"My Old Kentucky Homo: Abraham Lincoln, Larry Kramer, and the Politics of Queer Memory", ''Queering Public Address: Sexualities and American Historical Discourse,'' ed. Charles E. Morris III (Columbia: University of South Carolina Press, 2007): 93-120</ref>

Lincoln's stepmother, ], commented that he "never took much interest in the girls". However some accounts of Lincoln's contemporaries suggest that he had a strong but controlled passion for women.<ref name="Katz">Jonathan Ned Katz, ''Love Stories: Sex Between Men Before Homosexuality'', Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 2001. On Lincoln and Speed, see chapter 1, "No Two Men Were Ever More Intimate", pp. 3-25. For more on Lincoln and sexuality see the notes to this chapter.</ref> Lincoln was devastated over the 1835 death of ]. While some historians have questioned whether he had a romantic relationship with her, historian ] reviewed the historiography of the subject and concluded that "Available evidence overwhelmingly indicates that Lincoln so loved Ann that her death plunged him into severe depression. More than a century and a half after her death, when significant new evidence cannot be expected, she should take her proper place in Lincoln biography."<ref name=historycooperative> {{webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20060622095854/http://www.historycooperative.org/journals/jala/11/simon.html |date=2006-06-22 }}, John Y. Simon</ref>

In her book ], historian ] argues:

{{quote|Their intimacy is more an index to an era when close male friendships, accompanied by open expressions of affection and passion, were familiar and socially acceptable. Nor can sharing a bed be considered evidence for an erotic involvement. It was a common practice in an era when private quarters were a rare luxury... The attorneys of the Eighth circuit in Illinois where Lincoln would travel regularly shared beds. (58)}}

Critics of the hypothesis that Lincoln was homosexual emphasize that Lincoln married and had four children. Scholar ] writes that Lincoln as a young man displayed robustly ] behavior, including telling stories to his friends of his interactions with women.<ref name=Wilson>Douglas Wilson ''Honor's Voice: The Transformation of Abraham Lincoln,'' Vintage Publishing, 1999, {{ISBN|0-375-70396-9}}</ref>

Lincoln wrote a poem that described a marriage-like relation between two men, which included the lines:

{{quote|For Reuben and Charles have married two girls,<br/> But Billy has married a boy.<br/> The girls he had tried on every side,<br/> But none he could get to agree;<br/> All was in vain, he went home again,<br/> And since that he's married to Natty.|}}

This poem was included in the first edition of the 1889 biography of Lincoln by his friend and colleague ].<ref name=Herndon2000>Herndon, W. H., ''Herndon's Lincoln: The True Story of a Great Life.'' Scituate, MA: Digital Scanning, 2000.</ref> It was expurgated from subsequent editions until 1942, when the editor Paul Angle restored it.

Tripp states that Lincoln's awareness of homosexuality and openness in penning this "bawdy poem" "was unique for the time period."<ref>C.A. Tripp, ''The Intimate World of Abraham Lincoln'' pg 40-41 Free Press 2005 {{ISBN|0-7432-6639-0}}</ref>

====Relationship with Joshua Speed====
], who shared accommodation with Lincoln in ], ], for four years.]]
Lincoln met ] in ], in 1837, when Lincoln was a successful attorney and member of Illinois' House of Representatives. They lived together for four years, during which time they occupied the same bed during the night (some sources specify a large double bed) and developed a friendship that would last until their deaths.<ref name=Donald2003>Excerpt from D. H. Donald's ''We are Lincoln Men'' Simon & Schuster 2003 {{ISBN|0-7432-5468-6}}</ref> According to some sources, William Herndon<ref name=Sandburg>Sandburg 1:244</ref> and a fourth man also slept in the same room.<ref name=Prairie1926>''Abraham Lincoln: The Prairie Years (1926)'' 1:244<br />{{cite web |url=http://hnn.us/roundup/entries/9548.html |author=Richard Brookhiser |work=NYT Book Review |date=Jan 9, 2005 |title=Richard Brookhiser's NYT Book Review of C.A. Tripp's Gay Lincoln Biography |via=History News Network}}<br />David H. Donald's ''We are Lincoln Men'', op.cit.</ref>

Historians such as David Herbert Donald point out that it was not unusual at that time for two men to share a bed due to myriad circumstances, without anything sexual being implied, for a night or two when nothing else was available. Lincoln, who had just moved to a new town when he met Speed, was also at least initially unable to afford his own bed and bedding.<ref>{{cite book|last1=Keneally|first1=Thomas|title=Abraham Lincoln: A Life|date=2002|publisher=Penguin|at=Chapter 4|isbn=978-0670031757}}</ref> A tabulation of historical sources shows that Lincoln slept in the same bed with at least 11 boys and men during his youth and adulthood.<ref name=Sotos2008>{{cite book|author=Sotos, JG|title=The Physical Lincoln Sourcebook|location=], ]|publisher=Mt. Vernon Book Systems|year=2008|url=http://www.physical-lincoln.com/}}</ref>

That was no secret. There are no known instances in which Lincoln tried to suppress knowledge or discussion of such arrangements, and in some conversations, raised the subject himself. Tripp discusses three men at length and possible sustained relationships: ], William Greene, and Charles Derickson. However, in 19th-century America, it was not necessarily uncommon for men to bunk-up with other men, briefly, if no other arrangement were available. For example, when other lawyers and judges traveled "]" with Lincoln, the lawyers often slept "two in a bed and eight in a room".<ref>Randall, Ruth Painter. Mary Lincoln: Biography of a Marriage. Boston: Little, Brown, 1953. pp 70-71.</ref> ] recalled for example, "I have slept with 20 men in the same room".<ref name="DHD1948">Donald, D.H. Lincoln's Herndon. New York: A.A. Knopf, 1948, pg.&nbsp;46</ref>

In the nineteenth century, most men were probably not conscious of any erotic possibility in bed-sharing, since it was in public. Speed's immediate, casual offer, and his later report of it, suggests that men's public bed-sharing was not then often explicitly understood as conducive to forbidden sexual experiments.<ref name=Katz/> In such public arrangements, they would not be alone.

Nevertheless, Katz says that such sleeping arrangements "did provide an important site (probably the major site) of erotic opportunity" if they could keep others from noticing. Katz states that referring to present-day concepts of "homo, hetero, and bi distorts our present understanding of Lincoln and Speed's experiences."<ref name=Katz/> He states that, rather than there being "an unchanging essence of homosexuality and heterosexuality," people throughout history "continually reconfigure their affectionate and erotic feelings and acts".<ref name=Katz/> He suggests that the Lincoln-Speed relationship fell within a 19th-century category of intense, even romantic man-to-man friendships with erotic overtones that may have been "a world apart in that era's consciousness from the sensual universe of mutual masturbation and the legal universe of 'sodomy,' 'buggery,' and 'the crime against nature'".<ref name=Katz/>

Some correspondence of the period, such as that between ] and ], may provide evidence of a sexual dimension to some secret same-sex bed-sharing.<ref name=Duberman1826>Martin Duberman, "Writhing Bedfellows: 1826 Two Young Men from Antebellum South Carolina's Ruling Elite Share 'Extravagant Delight{{'"}}, in Salvatore Licata and Robert Petersen, eds., ''Historical Perspectives on Homosexuality'' (New York: Haworth Press & Stein & Day, 1981), pages 85-99.</ref> The fact that Lincoln was open about sharing a bed with Speed is seen by some historians as an indication that their relationship was not romantic.<ref>Donald, pg.&nbsp;38. In speaking of an incident when Lincoln openly referred to the four years he "slept with Joshua", Donald wrote, "I simply cannot believe that, if the early relationship between Joshua Speed and Lincoln had been sexual, the President of the United States would so freely and publicly speak of it."</ref> None of Lincoln's enemies hinted at any homosexual implication.<ref>Donald, pg.&nbsp;36. Donald states, "Though nearly every other possible charge against Lincoln was raised during his long public career – from his alleged illegitimacy to his possible romance with Ann Rutledge, to the breakup of his engagement to Mary Todd, to some turbulent aspects of their marriage – no one ever suggested that he and Speed were sexual partners."</ref>

Joshua Speed married Fanny Hennings on February 15, 1842. He and Lincoln seem to have consulted each other about married life. Despite having some political differences over ]<ref> from Lincoln to Speed in August 1855.</ref> they corresponded for the rest of their lives, and Lincoln appointed Joshua's brother, ], to his cabinet as ].

====Relationship with David Derickson====
Captain David Derickson of the ] was Lincoln's bodyguard and companion between September 1862 and April 1863. They shared a bed during the absences of Lincoln's wife, until Derickson was promoted in 1863.<ref name="Trip">Tripp, C.A. : Intimate World, Ibid.</ref> Derickson was twice married and fathered ten children. Tripp recounts that, whatever the level of intimacy of the relationship, it was the subject of gossip. Elizabeth Woodbury Fox, the wife of Lincoln's naval aide, wrote in her diary for November 16, 1862, "Tish says, 'Oh, there is a Bucktail soldier here devoted to the president, drives with him, and when Mrs. L. is not home, sleeps with him.' What stuff!"<ref name=Tripp/> This sleeping arrangement was also mentioned by a fellow officer in Derickson's regiment, Thomas Chamberlin, in the book ''History of the One Hundred and Fiftieth Regiment Pennsylvania Volunteers, Second Regiment, Bucktail Brigade''. Historian Martin P. Johnson states that the strong similarity in style and content of the Fox and Chamberlin accounts suggests that, rather than being two independent accounts of the same events as Tripp claims, both were based on the same report from a single source.<ref name=Johnson>Martin P. Johnson, {{webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20070522033200/http://www.historycooperative.org/journals/jala/27.2/johnson.html |date=2007-05-22 }}, ''Journal of the Abraham Lincoln Association'', Vol 27 No 2 (Summer 2006)</ref> David Donald and Johnson both dispute Tripp's interpretation of Fox's comment, saying that the exclamation of "What stuff!" was, in that day, an exclamation over the absurdity of the suggestion rather than the gossip value of it (as in the phrase "stuff and nonsense").<ref name=Donald>D. H. Donald, ''We are Lincoln Men,'' pp. 141-143 Simon & Schuster, 2003, {{ISBN|0-7432-5468-6}}</ref>


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The heterosexuality of Abraham Lincoln (1809–1865), the 16th President of the United States, has been questioned by some activists. Lincoln was married to Mary Todd from November 4, 1842, until his death on April 15, 1865, and fathered four children with her.

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