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Narcissism is a complex trait which multiple, distinct expressions. Grandiose narcissism is defined by an inflated sense of self-worth and high self-esteem, interpersonal exploitativeness, social dominance and assertiveness, shamelessness and a sense of entitlement derived from feelings of superiority or prestige. Vulnerable narcissism, by contrast, is characterised by a deflated self-appraisal with low and unstable self-esteem, pervasive feelings of shame, excessive need for admiration, self-absorption and a sense of entitlement derived from feelings of being owed for past victimisation.<ref>{{Cite journal |last=Miller |first=Joshua D. |last2=Hoffman |first2=Brian J. |last3=Gaughan |first3=Eric T. |last4=Gentile |first4=Brittany |last5=Maples |first5=Jessica |last6=Keith Campbell |first6=W. |date=2011 |title=Grandiose and Vulnerable Narcissism: A Nomological Network Analysis: Variants of Narcissism |url=https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-6494.2010.00711.x |journal=Journal of Personality |language=en |volume=79 |issue=5 |pages=1013–1042 |doi=10.1111/j.1467-6494.2010.00711.x}}</ref> | |||
⚫ | Narcissism is not necessarily 'good' or 'bad'; it depends on the contexts and outcomes being measured. In certain social contexts such as initiating social relationships, and with certain outcome variables, such as feeling good about oneself, healthy narcissism can be helpful. In other contexts, such as maintaining long-term relationships and with outcome variables, such as accurate self-knowledge, healthy narcissism can be unhelpful.<ref name |
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The trifurcated model of narcissism holds that the above narcissistic personality organizations reflect the differential combination of agentic extraversion (grandiose fantasy, authority, acclaim-seeking, exhibitionism), antagonism (arrogance, low empathy, manipulation, exploitativeness, entitlement, reactive anger, thrill-seeking) and neuroticism (shame, indifference, need for admiration).<ref>{{Citation |last=Weiss |first=Brandon |title=15 - A Trifurcated Model of Narcissism: On the pivotal role of trait Antagonism |date=2019-01-01 |url=https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/B9780128146279000153 |work=The Handbook of Antagonism |pages=221–235 |editor-last=Miller |editor-first=Joshua D. |publisher=Academic Press |language=en |isbn=978-0-12-814627-9 |access-date=2022-05-16 |last2=Campbell |first2=W. Keith |last3=Lynam |first3=Donald R. |last4=Miller |first4=Joshua D. |editor2-last=Lynam |editor2-first=Donald R.}}</ref> | |||
Four dimensions of narcissism as a personality variable have been delineated: leadership/authority, superiority/arrogance, self-absorption/self-admiration, and exploitativeness/entitlement.<ref>{{Cite journal |last1 = Horton |first1 = R. S. |last2 = Bleau |first2 = G. |last3 = Drwecki |first3 = B. |year = 2006 |title = Parenting Narcissus: What Are the Links Between Parenting and Narcissism? |url = http://persweb.wabash.edu/facstaff/hortonr/pubs/Horton%20et%20al.%20(2006).pdf |journal = ] |volume = 74 |number = 2 |pages = 345–76 |doi = 10.1111/j.1467-6494.2005.00378.x|pmid = 16529580 |citeseerx = 10.1.1.526.7237 }} See p. 347.</ref> | |||
⚫ | Narcissism is not necessarily 'good' or 'bad'; it depends on the contexts and outcomes being measured. In certain social contexts such as initiating social relationships, and with certain outcome variables, such as feeling good about oneself, healthy narcissism can be helpful. In other contexts, such as maintaining long-term relationships and with outcome variables, such as accurate self-knowledge, healthy narcissism can be unhelpful.<ref name="caf">{{cite book|last1= Campbell|first1 = W. Keith|last2= Foster|first2= Joshua D.|chapter = The Narcissistic Self: Background, an Extended Agency Model, and Ongoing Controversies|editor1-last= Sedikides |editor1-first = Constantine|editor2-last= Spencer|editor2-first=Steven J.|title = The Self|publisher = Psychology Press|date= 2007 |isbn = 978-1841694399|series = Frontiers of Social Psychology}}</ref> | ||
===Normal and healthy levels of narcissism=== | ===Normal and healthy levels of narcissism=== | ||
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==Expressions of narcissism== | ==Expressions of narcissism== | ||
===Narcissistic Admiration and Rivalry Concept (NARC)=== | |||
The Narcissistic Admiration and Rivalry Concept (NARC) was proposed by Back et al. (2013) as an attempt to reconcile the seemingly contradictory correlates of grandiose narcissism (e.g. self-assured and charming but hostile and aggressive; making a good first impression but incapable of forming lasting relationships).The model proposes that highly narcissistic individuals can pursue two strategies to maintain a grandiose self-view, each with distinct cognitive, affective-motivational and behavioural dynamics: admiration (ADM) and rivalry (RIV).<ref>Back, M. D., Küfner, A. C. P., Dufner, M., Gerlach, T. M., Rauthmann, J. F., & Denissen, J. J. A. (2013). Narcissistic admiration and rivalry: Disentangling the bright and dark sides of narcissism. ''Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 105''(6), 1013–1037. <nowiki>https://doi.org/10.1037/a0034431</nowiki></ref> | |||
ADM is a strategy assertive self-enhancement characterised by striving for uniqueness (optimistic pursuit of own uniqueness and superiority), grandiose fantasies (recurrent thinking about own grandiosity) and charming behaviours (self-assured, dominant and expressive actions). This results in desired outcomes like success, praise, being chosen as a leader and social status which generate an ego boost, reaffirming the grandiose self-image and reactivating the striving for uniqueness and charming behaviour. RIV is a strategy of antagonistic self-protection characterised by striving for supremacy (desire to defend own superior status compared to perceived rivals), devaluation of others (insensitive and contemptuous view of others) and aggressive behaviours (annoyed, hostile and socially insensitive actions). Aggressiveness confers negative social outcomes like rejection, criticism, unpopularity and conflict which confer ego threat, reaffirming contemptuousness and reactivating striving for relative supremacy and aggressiveness. | |||
ADM is associated with various positive outcomes, including a strong positive correlation self-esteem and agency, and is related to inflated self-appraisals of agentic features, perceived likability, self-esteem stability, initial relationship success, speaking performance, and low neuroticism, but also with manipulativeness and entitlement. RIV is associated with predominately negative outcomes, including a modest inverse association with level and stability of self-esteem, low communion, entitlement, neuroticism, antagonism, perceived unlikability, relationship dissolution, negative self-appraisals, and poor speaking performance.<ref>Back, M. D., Küfner, A. C. P., Dufner, M., Gerlach, T. M., Rauthmann, J. F., & Denissen, J. J. A. (2013). Narcissistic admiration and rivalry: Disentangling the bright and dark sides of narcissism. ''Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 105''(6), 1013–1037. <nowiki>https://doi.org/10.1037/a0034431</nowiki></ref><ref>{{Citation |last=Back |first=Mitja D. |title=The Narcissistic Admiration and Rivalry Concept |date=2018 |url=https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-92171-6_6 |work=Handbook of Trait Narcissism: Key Advances, Research Methods, and Controversies |pages=57–67 |editor-last=Hermann |editor-first=Anthony D. |place=Cham |publisher=Springer International Publishing |language=en |doi=10.1007/978-3-319-92171-6_6 |isbn=978-3-319-92171-6 |access-date=2022-05-16 |editor2-last=Brunell |editor2-first=Amy B. |editor3-last=Foster |editor3-first=Joshua D.}}</ref> | |||
===Sexual narcissism=== | ===Sexual narcissism=== | ||
Sexual narcissism has been described as an ] pattern of sexual behavior that involves an inflated sense of sexual ability or sexual entitlement, sometimes in the form of extramarital affairs. This can be ] for low self-esteem or an inability to sustain true intimacy.<ref>{{cite journal |author=Hurlbert, D.F.|author2=Apt, C. |title=Sexual narcissism and the abusive male |journal=Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy |volume=17 |issue=4 |pages=279–92 |year=1991 |pmid=1815094 |doi=10.1080/00926239108404352 }}</ref> | Sexual narcissism has been described as an ] pattern of sexual behavior that involves an inflated sense of sexual ability or sexual entitlement, sometimes in the form of extramarital affairs. This can be ] for low self-esteem or an inability to sustain true intimacy.<ref>{{cite journal |author=Hurlbert, D.F.|author2=Apt, C. |title=Sexual narcissism and the abusive male |journal=Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy |volume=17 |issue=4 |pages=279–92 |year=1991 |pmid=1815094 |doi=10.1080/00926239108404352 }}</ref> |
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Personality trait of self-love of a perceived perfect self For other uses, see Narcissism (disambiguation).Narcissism is a self-centered personality style characterized as having an excessive interest in one's physical appearance and an excessive preoccupation with one's own needs, often at the expense of others.
It is human nature for people to be selfish and narcissism exists on a spectrum that ranges from normal to abnormal personality expression. There is a significant difference between normal, healthy levels of narcissism and people who are difficult/self-absorbed, or people having a pathological mental illness like narcissistic personality disorder.
Etymology
The term "narcissism" comes from a first-century book (written in the year 8 AD) by the Roman poet Ovid. Metamorphoses Book III tells the mythical story of a handsome young man, Narcissus, who spurns the advances of many potential lovers. When Narcissus rejects the nymph Echo, who was cursed to only echo the sounds that others made, the gods punished Narcissus by making him fall in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. When Narcissus discovers that the object of his love cannot love him back, he slowly pines away and dies.
The concept of excessive selfishness has been recognized throughout history. In ancient Greece, the concept was understood as hubris.
It wasn't until the late 1800s that narcissism began to be defined in psychological terms. Since that time, the term narcissism has had a significant divergence in meaning in psychology. It has been used to describe:
- "a sexual perversion,
- a normal developmental stage,
- a symptom in psychosis, and
- a characteristic in several of the object relations ".
Paul Näcke and Havelock Ellis (1889) are the first psychiatrists, independent of one another, to use the term "narcissism" to describe a person who treats his own body in the same way in which the body of a sexual partner is ordinarily treated. Narcissism, in this context, was seen as a perversion that consumed a person's entire sexual life.
Otto Rank (1911) published the first clinical paper about narcissism, linking it to vanity and self-admiration.
Ernest Jones (1913) was the first to construe extreme narcissism, which he called the "God-complex" as a character flaw. He described people with God-complex as being aloof, self-important, overconfident, auto-erotic, inaccessible, self-admiring, and exhibitionistic, with fantasies of omnipotence and omniscience. He observed that these people had a high need for uniqueness.
Sigmund Freud (1914) published his theory of narcissism in a lengthy essay titled "On Narcissism: An Introduction". Freud postulated that all humans have a level of narcissism from birth (primary narcissism), it is healthy, and in time, evolves outward as love for others. Freud had declared that narcissism was a necessary intermediate stage between auto-erotism and object-love, love for others. He also theorized that narcissism becomes a neurosis (secondary narcissism) when individuals who had reached the point of projecting their affections to others, turned their affection back on themselves. In time these individuals become cut off from society and disinterested in others.
Robert Waelder (1925) was the first to conceptualize narcissism as a personality trait. His definition described individuals who are condescending, feel superior to others, are preoccupied with admiration, and exhibit a lack of empathy.
Karen Horney (1939) postulated that narcissism was on a spectrum that ranged from healthy self-esteem to a pathological state.
Waelder's work and his case study have been very influential in the way narcissism and the clinical disorder Narcissistic personality disorder are defined today. His patient was a successful scientist with an attitude of superiority, an obsession with fostering self-respect, and a lack of normal feelings of guilt. The patient was aloof and independent from others, had an inability to empathize with others, and was selfish sexually. Waelder's patient was also overly logical and analytical and valued abstract intellectual thought over the practical application of scientific knowledge.
Misappropriation of the term
Increasingly over the last three decades, social media, bloggers, and self-help authors have indiscriminately applied "narcissism" as a label for the self-serving and for all domestic abusers. This misappropriation of the term is both damaging to those who deal with extreme narcissists in their own lives, as well as the public view of people with narcissistic personality disorder. Jeremy Sherman argues that we as a society move away from the glorification of narcissism and exaggerating its prevalence as well as minimizing the damage that it can do.
Characteristics
Narcissism is a complex trait which multiple, distinct expressions. Grandiose narcissism is defined by an inflated sense of self-worth and high self-esteem, interpersonal exploitativeness, social dominance and assertiveness, shamelessness and a sense of entitlement derived from feelings of superiority or prestige. Vulnerable narcissism, by contrast, is characterised by a deflated self-appraisal with low and unstable self-esteem, pervasive feelings of shame, excessive need for admiration, self-absorption and a sense of entitlement derived from feelings of being owed for past victimisation.
The trifurcated model of narcissism holds that the above narcissistic personality organizations reflect the differential combination of agentic extraversion (grandiose fantasy, authority, acclaim-seeking, exhibitionism), antagonism (arrogance, low empathy, manipulation, exploitativeness, entitlement, reactive anger, thrill-seeking) and neuroticism (shame, indifference, need for admiration).
Narcissism is not necessarily 'good' or 'bad'; it depends on the contexts and outcomes being measured. In certain social contexts such as initiating social relationships, and with certain outcome variables, such as feeling good about oneself, healthy narcissism can be helpful. In other contexts, such as maintaining long-term relationships and with outcome variables, such as accurate self-knowledge, healthy narcissism can be unhelpful.
Normal and healthy levels of narcissism
Narcissism is an essential component of mature self-esteem and basic self-worth. In essence, narcissistic behaviors are a system of intrapersonal and interpersonal strategies devoted to protecting one's self-esteem.
It has been suggested that healthy narcissism is correlated with good psychological health. Self-esteem works as a mediator between narcissism and psychological health. Therefore, because of their elevated self-esteem, deriving from self-perceptions of competence and likability, high narcissists are relatively free of worry and gloom.
Destructive levels of narcissism
Narcissism, in and of itself, is a normal personality trait, however, high levels of narcissistic behavior can be damaging and self-defeating. Destructive narcissism is the constant exhibition of a few of the intense characteristics usually associated with pathological Narcissistic Personality Disorder such as a "pervasive pattern of grandiosity", which is characterized by feelings of entitlement and superiority, arrogant or haughty behaviors, and a generalized lack of empathy and concern for others. On a spectrum, destructive narcissism is more extreme than healthy narcissism but not as extreme as the pathological condition.
Pathological levels of narcissism
Main article: Narcissistic personality disorderExtremely high levels of narcissistic behavior are considered pathological. The pathological condition of narcissism is, as Freud suggested, a magnified, extreme manifestation of healthy narcissism. Freud's idea of narcissism described a pathology that manifests itself in the inability to love others, a lack of empathy, emptiness, boredom, and an unremitting need to search for power, while making the person unavailable to others. The clinical theorists Kernberg, Kohut and Theodore Millon all saw pathological narcissism as a possible outcome in response to unempathic and inconsistent early childhood interactions. They suggested that narcissists try to compensate in adult relationships. German psychoanalyst Karen Horney (1885–1952) also saw the narcissistic personality as a temperament trait molded by a certain kind of early environment.
Heritability
Heritability studies using twins have shown that narcissistic traits, as measured by standardized tests, are often inherited. Narcissism was found to have a high heritability score (0.64) indicating that the concordance of this trait in the identical twins was significantly influenced by genetics as compared to an environmental causation. It has also been shown that there is a continuum or spectrum of narcissistic traits ranging from normal and a pathological personality. Furthermore, evidence suggests that individual elements of narcissism have their own heritability score. For example, intrapersonal grandiosity has a score of 0.23, and interpersonal entitlement has a score of 0.35. While the genetic impact on narcissism levels is significant, it isn't the only factor at play.
Sociocultural influences
Alongside genetics, their environment has a significant, though notably lower, impact on a person's level of narcissism. People in more individualistic societies tend to have higher levels of narcissism when compared to collectivist societies. Furthermore, the differences between collectivism and individualistic societies, while relatively insignificant, are measurable and therefore worth noting. One study looked at differences in advertising products between an individualistic culture, America, and a collectivist one, South Korea. In American magazine advertisements, it found, there was a greater tendency to stress the distinctiveness and uniqueness of the person; conversely the South Korean ones stressed the importance of social conformity and harmony. This observation holds true for a cross-cultural analysis across a wide range of cultural outputs where individualistic national cultures produce more individualistic cultural products and collectivist national cultures produce more collectivist national products; these cultural effects were greater than the effects of individual differences within national cultures.
Expressions of narcissism
Narcissistic Admiration and Rivalry Concept (NARC)
The Narcissistic Admiration and Rivalry Concept (NARC) was proposed by Back et al. (2013) as an attempt to reconcile the seemingly contradictory correlates of grandiose narcissism (e.g. self-assured and charming but hostile and aggressive; making a good first impression but incapable of forming lasting relationships).The model proposes that highly narcissistic individuals can pursue two strategies to maintain a grandiose self-view, each with distinct cognitive, affective-motivational and behavioural dynamics: admiration (ADM) and rivalry (RIV).
ADM is a strategy assertive self-enhancement characterised by striving for uniqueness (optimistic pursuit of own uniqueness and superiority), grandiose fantasies (recurrent thinking about own grandiosity) and charming behaviours (self-assured, dominant and expressive actions). This results in desired outcomes like success, praise, being chosen as a leader and social status which generate an ego boost, reaffirming the grandiose self-image and reactivating the striving for uniqueness and charming behaviour. RIV is a strategy of antagonistic self-protection characterised by striving for supremacy (desire to defend own superior status compared to perceived rivals), devaluation of others (insensitive and contemptuous view of others) and aggressive behaviours (annoyed, hostile and socially insensitive actions). Aggressiveness confers negative social outcomes like rejection, criticism, unpopularity and conflict which confer ego threat, reaffirming contemptuousness and reactivating striving for relative supremacy and aggressiveness.
ADM is associated with various positive outcomes, including a strong positive correlation self-esteem and agency, and is related to inflated self-appraisals of agentic features, perceived likability, self-esteem stability, initial relationship success, speaking performance, and low neuroticism, but also with manipulativeness and entitlement. RIV is associated with predominately negative outcomes, including a modest inverse association with level and stability of self-esteem, low communion, entitlement, neuroticism, antagonism, perceived unlikability, relationship dissolution, negative self-appraisals, and poor speaking performance.
Sexual narcissism
Sexual narcissism has been described as an egocentric pattern of sexual behavior that involves an inflated sense of sexual ability or sexual entitlement, sometimes in the form of extramarital affairs. This can be overcompensation for low self-esteem or an inability to sustain true intimacy.
While this behavioral pattern is believed to be more common in men than in women, it occurs in both males and females who compensate for feelings of sexual inadequacy by becoming overly proud or obsessed with their masculinity or femininity.
The controversial condition referred to as "sexual addiction" is believed by some experts to be sexual narcissism or sexual compulsivity rather than an addictive behavior.
Parental narcissism
Main article: Narcissistic parentsNarcissistic parents can see their children as extensions of themselves and encourage the children to act in ways that support the parents' emotional and self-esteem needs. Due to their vulnerability, children may be significantly affected by this behavior. To meet the parents’ needs, the child may sacrifice their own wants and feelings. A child subjected to this type of parenting may struggle in adulthood with their intimate relationships.
In extreme situations, this parenting style can result in estranged relationships with the children, coupled with feelings of resentment and in some cases, self-destructive tendencies.
Workplace narcissism
Main article: Narcissism in the workplace- Professionals. There is a compulsion of some professionals to constantly assert their competence, even when they are wrong. Professional narcissism can lead otherwise capable, and even exceptional, professionals to fall into narcissistic traps. "Most professionals work on cultivating a self that exudes authority, control, knowledge, competence and respectability. It's the narcissist in us all—we dread appearing stupid or incompetent."
- Executives. are often provided with potential narcissistic triggers:
- inanimate – status symbols like company cars, company-issued smartphone, or prestigious offices with window views; and
- animate – flattery and attention from colleagues and subordinates.
- Narcissism has been linked to a range of potential leadership problems ranging from poor motivational skills to risky decision making, and in extreme cases, white-collar crime. High-profile corporate leaders that place an extreme emphasis on profits may yield positive short-term benefits for their organizations, but ultimately it drags down individual employees as well as entire companies.
- Subordinates may find everyday offers of support swiftly turn them into enabling sources unless they are very careful to maintain proper boundaries.
- Studies examining the role of personality in the rise to leadership have shown that individuals who rise to leadership positions can be described as inter-personally dominant, extroverted, and socially skilled. When examining the correlation of narcissism in the rise to leadership positions, narcissists who are often inter-personally dominant, extroverted, and socially skilled, were also likely to rise to leadership but were more likely to emerge as leaders in situations where they were not known, such as in outside hires (versus internal promotions). Paradoxically, narcissism can present as characteristics that facilitate an individual's rise to leadership and ultimately lead that person to underachieve or even to fail.
- General workforce. Narcissism can create problems in the general workforce. For example, individuals high in narcissism inventories are more likely to engage in counterproductive behavior that harms organizations or other people in the workplace. Aggressive (and counterproductive) behaviors tend to surface when self-esteem is threatened. Individuals high in narcissism have fragile self-esteem and are easily threatened. One study found that employees who are high on narcissism are more likely to perceive the behaviors of others in the workplace as abusive and threatening than individuals who are low on narcissism.
Celebrity narcissism
Celebrity narcissism (sometimes referred to as Acquired situational narcissism) is a form of narcissism that develops in late adolescence or adulthood, brought on by wealth, fame and the other trappings of celebrity. Celebrity narcissism develops after childhood and is triggered and supported by the celebrity-obsessed society. Fans, assistants and tabloid media all play into the idea that the person really is vastly more important than other people, triggering a narcissistic problem that might have been only a tendency, or latent, and helping it to become a full-blown personality disorder. "Robert Millman says that what happens to celebrities is that they get so used to people looking at them that they stop looking back at other people." In its most extreme presentation and symptoms, it is indistinguishable from narcissistic personality disorder, differing only in its late onset and its environmental support by large numbers of fans. "The lack of social norms, controls, and of people centering them makes these people believe they're invulnerable," so that the person may suffer from unstable relationships, substance abuse or erratic behaviors.
Collective narcissism
Main article: Collective narcissismCollective narcissism is a type of narcissism where an individual has an inflated self-love of their own group. While the classic definition of narcissism focuses on the individual, collective narcissism asserts that one can have a similar excessively high opinion of a group, and that a group can function as a narcissistic entity. Collective narcissism is related to ethnocentrism; however, ethnocentrism primarily focuses on self-centeredness at an ethnic or cultural level, while collective narcissism is extended to any type of ingroup beyond just cultures and ethnicities.
Normalization of narcissistic behaviors
Some commentators contend that the American populace has become increasingly narcissistic since the end of World War II. People compete mightily for attention. In social situations they tend to steer the conversation away from others and toward themselves. The profusion of popular literature about "listening" and "managing those who talk constantly about themselves" suggests its pervasiveness in everyday life. This claim is substantiated by the growth of "reality TV" programs, the growth of an online culture in which digital media, social media and the desire for fame are generating a "new era of public narcissism."
Also supporting the contention that American culture has become more narcissistic is an analysis of US popular song lyrics between 1987 and 2007. This found a growth in the use of first-person singular pronouns, reflecting a greater focus on the self, and also of references to antisocial behavior; during the same period, there was a diminution of words reflecting a focus on others, positive emotions, and social interactions. References to narcissism and self-esteem in American popular print media have experienced vast inflation since the late 1980s. Between 1987 and 2007 direct mentions of self-esteem in leading US newspapers and magazines increased by 4,540 per cent while narcissism, which had been almost non-existent in the press during the 1970s, was referred to over 5,000 times between 2002 and 2007.
Similar patterns of change in cultural production are observable in other Western states. For example, a linguistic analysis of the largest circulation Norwegian newspaper found that the use of self-focused and individualistic terms increased in frequency by 69 per cent between 1984 and 2005 while collectivist terms declined by 32 per cent.
Narcissism and evolution
Narcissism plays a role in evolution through the process of assortative mating or the non-random choice of a partner for purposes of procreation.
Humans mate assortatively regarding age, IQ, height, weight, nationality, educational and occupational level, physical and personality characteristics, and family relatedness. In the "self seeking like" hypothesis, individuals unconsciously look for a "mirror image" of themselves in others, seeking criteria of beauty or reproductive fitness in the context of self-reference. Alvarez et al. found that facial resemblance between couples was a strong driving force among the mechanisms of assortative mating: human couples resemble each other significantly more than would be expected from random pair formation. Since facial characteristics are known to be inherited, the "self seeking like" mechanism may enhance reproduction between genetically similar mates, favoring the stabilization of genes supporting social behavior, with no kin relationship among them.
Narcissism and Social Media
The Three Theoretical Models
The following three theoretical models are used to predict the increase of social media use by narcissistic individuals. It is important to know that these theories have not been proven nor disproven due to the inconsistency in research findings.
- Self-enhancement model: This model illustrates that social media can be used to enhance one’s self-image by using features such as editing tools like photoshop and filters. Narcissists can use a platform like this as a strategy to support a grandiose and unrealistic self-image. Social media connects people from all around the world which can lift the constraints of a persons’ immediate social environment. This can give narcissistic types an advantage in which they can obtain the feedback necessary for the sustainment of their self-image not only from those within their immediate environment but also from strangers around the world. This does not bode well for narcissistic individuals because the favorable conditions of the social media environment could facilitate or trigger narcissistic behavior.
- The Fit model: Social media networks are wide, but they are also shallow. These networks are not suited for deep or intimate relationships, which is favorable for those individuals high in grandiose narcissism because they tend to avoid deep interpersonal relationships, are more comfortable with emotionally shallow relationships, and thrive in environments where they have more social influence. This theory suggests that those high in grandiose narcissism will have more friends on social media platforms.
- Trait model: In relation to the Big Five Theory Grandiose Narcissism is related to low agreeableness and high extraversion and openness. Concerning the use of social media, extroverts in general are recognized for having larger social networks regardless of their levels of narcissism and they tend to produce more content. This suggests that extraversion may be connected to the tendency of narcissists to have more friends and generate more content. Vulnerable narcissists tend to be low in agreeableness and high in neuroticism. These types tend to put all their eggs in one basket and focus on managing their impression while remaining concerned for their privacy. They don’t want to attract too much attention.
Controversies
There has been an increased interest in narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) in the last 10 years. There are areas of substantial debate that surround the subject including:
- clearly defining the difference between normal and pathological narcissism,
- understanding the role of self-esteem in narcissism,
- reaching a consensus on the classifications and definitions of sub-types such as "grandiose" and "vulnerable dimensions" or variants of these,
- understanding what are the central versus peripheral, primary versus secondary features/characteristics of narcissism,
- determining if there is consensual description,
- agreeing on the etiological factors,
- deciding what field or discipline narcissism should be studied by,
- agreeing on how it should be assessed and measured, and
- agreeing on its representation in textbooks and classification manuals.
This extent of the controversy was on public display in 2010-2013 when the committee on personality disorders for the 5th Edition (2013) of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders recommended the removal of Narcissistic Personality from the manual. A contentious three year debate unfolded in the clinical community with one of the sharpest critics being professor John Gunderson, MD, the person who led the DSM personality disorders committee for the 4th edition of the manual.
See also
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Further reading
- Blackburn, Simon, Mirror, Mirror: The Uses and Abuses of Self-Love (Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 2014)
- Twenge, Jean M.; Campbell, W., Keith The Narcissism Epidemic: Living in the Age of Entitlement (2009)
- Hotchkiss, Sandy; Masterson, James F., Why Is It Always About You? : The Seven Deadly Sins of Narcissism (2003)
- Brown, Nina W., Children of the Self-Absorbed: A Grown-up's Guide to Getting over Narcissistic Parents (2008)
- McFarlin, Dean, Where Egos Dare: The Untold Truth About Narcissistic Leaders – And How to Survive Them (2002)
- Brown, Nina W., The Destructive Narcissistic Pattern (1998)
- Golomb, Elan, Trapped in the Mirror – Adult Children of Narcissists in their Struggle for Self (1995)
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