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- Alastair Haines (talk · contribs · logs)
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Statement of the dispute
Rushyo (talk · contribs) feels that Alastair Haines (talk · contribs) has behaved unreasonably in threatening him with an ArbCom arbitration which Alastair had no intention of performing, resulting in huge distress and undermining Rushyo's perceived worth as an editor without any due process. -Rushyo (talk) 22:39, 6 July 2008 (UTC)
L'Aquatique (talk · contribs) feels that, in addition to the above, Alastair Haines (talk · contribs) has repeatedly acted in an uncivil manner towards herself, Rushyo (talk · contribs) and Ilkali (talk · contribs). He has shown no intent to follow agreed upon consensus and instead continually pushes his POV and demands that his needs be met over others. He refuses to admit any of this and has stated more times than she can count that he is 'waiting for us to apologize' for perceived personal attacks toward him. L'Aquatique 00:24, 7 July 2008 (UTC)
Ilkali (talk · contribs) feels that Alastair Haines (talk · contribs) views himself as the sole arbiter over what content can be included in any article he has an interest in, and rapidly descends into hostile behaviour toward anyone contesting his judgement. His aggressive temperament has lead to cascading incivility and has repeatedly stopped discussion in its tracks. Ilkali (talk) 09:56, 7 July 2008 (UTC)
Desired outcome
I would like to see the user show some remorse for the results of his actions and not continue to state he intends to make an ArbCom case against another user, Ilkali, doing the same again. If the user's conduct continues in the same fashion more disputes will arise and more people will get hurt. -Rushyo (talk) 22:39, 6 July 2008 (UTC)
I would like to see an apology to both Rushyo and Ilkali. I would also like to see him lose the attitude and start acting in a mature manner befitting a Wikipedian. I think that's about as clear as I can make it. L'Aquatique 00:24, 7 July 2008 (UTC)
I would like Alastair to show willingness to respect consensus for a position that he disagrees with, and to focus on content rather than treating the disagreement as a personal war between him and I. I'd also like for him to start considering that he may not be an "impeccable editor" (his words) - that he can be wrong, and that others can criticise his actions and attitude without being guilty of making personal attacks. Ilkali (talk) 09:56, 7 July 2008 (UTC)
Description
As a volunteer for the Mediation Cabal I offered to mediate on a dispute between Alastair, Ilkali and Alynna Kasmira regarding the article Gender of God. L'Aqùatique joined me as a mediator in this discussion. The case page is here and the discussion here.During this process a dispute arose between myself and Alastair and I resigned as a mediator to avoid conflict. I then posted a level 3 NPOV warning notice regarding repeated edits by Alastair and was greeted with a threat of ArbCom action. -Rushyo (talk) 22:39, 6 July 2008 (UTC)
I was the other mediator involved in the Gender of God case. Rushyo's summary above is accurate, I'm not sure what else exactly I can say, but I've added a ton of diffs below. L'Aquatique 00:26, 7 July 2008 (UTC)
I have been involved in discussions over this article with Alastair for a long time. He and Abtract and I (and later Alynna_Kasmira (talk · contribs) have disagreed over the article's title, scope and lead. After a time, an RfC was opened by Abtract (talk · contribs) to discuss the dispute, before Alastair closed it with the text "This RfC is now closed. The conclusion is that Ilkali has continuously acted like a troll, and I've been too gentle with him". ().
Alastair then began demanding that all things he considered personal attacks be deleted from the talk space . At approximately this time, I opened an AN/I against him, which ended prematurely due to over-eager archiving. After a time, he deleted a section himself and added his own incivil commentary to another. When other editors reverted these changes, he edit-warred until he was reported for 3RR violation and temporarily blocked.
He was shortly reported and blocked again when he tried to freeze the article in an old state until consensus had been reached to move forward, despite being the only editor out of four who disagreed with the changes.
After failing to garner support at Wikiproject Christianity with an extremely incivil description of Abtract and myself, Alastair took the matter to mediation (whereupon Rushyo and L'Aquatique became involved). However, he eventually disengaged with discussion of content despite no progress having been made and demanded that the mediators turn their focus to me and what he perceived as my poor behaviour. In his words, this was the "real issue" ().
At all points, Alastair demands that people be polite to him, on two occasions stating that this is a requirement for him considering their opinions (, ). Where he feels they have wronged him, he insists on an apology (, , etc). He has now announced intent to go to ArbCom solely to have me reprimanded, explicitly announcing that this is "not about content". I believe his pride is keeping him from functioning as a responsible editor. Ilkali (talk) 09:56, 7 July 2008 (UTC)
Evidence of disputed behavior
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- -Rushyo (talk) 22:39, 6 July 2008 (UTC)
- , but basically the entire case has been him making similar comments. L'Aquatique 00:24, 7 July 2008 (UTC)
- I included diffs in my comments in the above section. Ilkali (talk) 09:56, 7 July 2008 (UTC)
Applicable policies and guidelines
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- WP:Harassment, WP:Civility, WP:Etiquette, WP:GAME
- the above + WP:LAWYER, WP:TEND
- the above + WP:OWN Ilkali (talk) 09:56, 7 July 2008 (UTC)
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I came into this when I saw what appeared to be an edit war going in with the Gender of God article. At the time I did a quick review and a huge chunk of the article had been deleted, including sections on comparative religion and (most significantly) a definition summary of "Gender" to accompany a similar one for "God." Since "gender" could not possibly be less relevant to "gender of god" than "god", I judged the change to be possible vandalism, and I restored the missing sections . Since the edit war continued, I moved the disputed section to the talk page , urging that something cannot be edited when it was continually being ripped out. Alastair agreed to that compromise. As far as I can tell, no useful editing occurred even on the talk page (I could have missed something).
- Alastair seemed to be agreeable
- And we tried to hammer out some ideas on the talk page instead of in edit wars .
- But Alastair was getting warned about even that .
- Alastair asked that we try to talk about the subject rather than himself (and unfortunately returned a warning with a warning) .
- It seemed to go both ways
- And then we got sidetracked by something else entirely (by that time Alastair was looking like the popular punching bag) .
I finally gave up trying to find a way to work on the article. The only thing I fault Alastair for (from what I've seen) is sticking it out with the article. Once it got personal, you can't even proceed with an edit if it's correct. People will just yank it anyway. It's human nature. I think we Misplaced Pages editors should remember that "right" and "wrong" get turned on their heads once emotion comes into the room.
My summary opinion is that everyone should drop everything, here, there, and everywhere; go off and cool down in a corner; and try to edit pages where there isn't so much fighting going on.
Alastair and the other editors are all intelligent educated adults who have knowledge and interests that do not intersect. My suggestion is to take a break from each other, and edit other subjects they know things about. The Gender of God isn't going anywhere. As far as I know, He/She isn't scheduled for reassignment surgery anytime soon.Tim (talk) 19:07, 8 July 2008 (UTC)
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