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A Ruined Orgasm occurs when a man is stimulated to the exact moment of ejaculation. The stimulation is stopped at the EXACT moment of ejaculation or the flow of ejaculatory fluid is blocked. This practice is frequently done with couples who practice the art of Tease and Denial. Frequently, the man is teased to the point of orgasm and the orgasm is denied. When this is done enough times and the partner is brought to a point of desperation for relief from the build up of ejaculatory fluid. The partner may either chose to allow the man to ejaculate or destroy the ejaculation (Ruined Orgasm) leaving the man feeling frustrated and unfulfilled. Many women use this practice to " keep their man under control" by keeping him in a state of constant tension.
As an alternative technique, it is actually possible for the man to be permitted to ejaculate, but to do so without achieving orgasm. This requires great discipline on the man's part, but it can be done. One key to the technique is to remove all stimulation of the penis at the exact moment when an orgasm would otherwise be achieved; the result is a full expulsion of semen (albeit with, often, less force than during an orgasm), but with none of the associated relief. Once a man has learned this technique, it enables his partner to keep him in a state of denial indefinitely, yet maintain prostate health more thoroughly than the alternative technique of prostate milking.
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