Bob Paris | |
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Paolo Tassetto (on the left) with Bob Paris in Padua, Italy in 1986 | |
Born | Robert Clark Paris (1959-12-14) December 14, 1959 (age 65) Columbus, Indiana |
Spouse |
Brian LeFurgey (m. 2003) |
Website | http://www.bobparis.com |
Bob Paris (born Robert Clark Paris on December 14, 1959) is an American writer, actor, public speaker, civil rights activist, and former professional bodybuilder. Paris was the 1983 NPC American National and IFBB World Bodybuilding Champion. In 1989, he became the world's first male professional athlete to come out as gay in the media while still an active competitor in his sport.
Biography
Early life
Paris was born and grew up in Brown County and Columbus, Indiana. From an early age, he was both artistic and athletic. He won National Scholastic awards for his drawings and paintings and wrote short stories. Paris was also involved in his school's debate team and a member of the International Thespian Society. Paris played several sports in high school: track and field, golf, and particularly football. After experimenting with weight training as a sophomore, Paris started to gain size and strength.
He moved to southern California to pursue dreams of becoming a bodybuilder and actor. Within two years he had won two competitions: Mr. Los Angeles and Mr. Southern California.
Career
Since rising to fame in the early 1980s, Bob Paris has appeared on the covers of scores of magazines worldwide. He is noted for his aesthetics and artistic approach toward the sport.
In the July 1989 issue of Ironman, Paris came out in the media as a gay man. He was the world's first male professional athlete, in any sport, to come out in the media while still an active competitor in his sport. That year, Paris appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show to discuss marriage and being gay. Oprah asked Paris, "Bob, why not just stay in the closet?" Paris said "you fall in love" and it doesn't feel right to hide it.
Paris and his then-boyfriend, Rod Jackson, became symbols for gay marriage and advocated gay rights. Paris's career suffered for it; he lost about 80% of his bookings and endorsements for bodybuilding. He has said he received death threats through mail and by phone.
He became a dedicated advocate for the rights of athletes and an outspoken voice in the push for drug testing at the professional level.
He retired from bodybuilding in 1991, but competed in the 1992 Chicago Pro Championships-IFFB, finishing 10th.
On October 10, 1998, he made his New York stage debut, starring at Carnegie Hall opposite Bea Arthur, Sandy Duncan, Michael Jeter, Philip Bosco, Alice Ripley, and Tyne Daly in the Broadway musical Jubilee as the character Mowgli.
In 2006, Flex Magazine ranked Bob Paris the most aesthetic athlete in the history of bodybuilding.
In 2009, he performed in a recurring role on the first season of the ABC Television series, Defying Gravity.
Paris remains a civil rights advocate and public speaker. He is also a model and a classically trained theater actor.
Personal life
Paris and Jackson were seen as a model relationship in the gay community, yet they split up after seven years due to undisclosed difficulties. Paris and Jackson's relationship was constantly in the limelight, hence making the breakup very public. Paris said that he kept trying to keep his relationship going even when he knew better; Paris felt that he would be giving gays a bad image if he and Jackson broke up.
In 2012, Paris wrote on his website that he never wanted to be a "lifestyle bodybuilder." He said he enjoyed the discipline and focus bodybuilding engendered; he also simply just excelled at the sport. To Paris, bodybuilding allowed him to be artistic and a jock all at once, and the sport allowed him to exert his physical presence to the world in a way that demonstrated that he was a man.
As of 2015, Paris was still active in fitness, but not as intensely as he once was, and saw himself more as a writer over anything else.
Paris lives with his husband, Brian LeFurgey, on an island near Vancouver, British Columbia. He holds dual American and Canadian citizenship. Together since 1996, Paris and LeFurgey were married in British Columbia after the province equalized the marriage laws in 2003.
Books by Bob Paris
- Beyond Built: Bob Paris' Guide to Achieving the Ultimate Look (1990)
- Flawless: The 10-Week Total Image Method for Transforming Your Physique (1993)
- Natural Fitness
- Straight From The Heart (as co-author)
- Gorilla Suit (1997)
- Generation Queer: A Gay Man's Quest For Hope, Love & Justice
- Prime: The Complete Guide to Being Fit, Looking Good, Feeling Great (2002)
Photography books of Bob Paris
- Duo by Herb Ritts
- Bob & Rod by Tom Bianchi
Bodybuilding career
- As an amateur:
- 1981 NPC Mr. Los Angeles, (Los Angeles, California), Light-heavyweight class and Overall: 1st
- 1982 NPC Mr. Southern California (Pasadena, California), Light-heavyweight class and Overall: 1st
- 1982 NPC California Muscle Classic (Pasadena, California), Light-heavyweight class and Overall: 1st
- 1982 NPC Mr. California (San Jose, California), Light-heavyweight class: 2nd
- 1982 NPC American National Championships (New York City), Heavyweight class: 3rd
- 1983 NPC National Championships (San Jose, California), Heavyweight class and Overall: 1st
- 1983 IFBB World Championships (Singapore), Heavyweight class and Overall: 1st
- As a professional:
IFBB Mr. Olympia:
- 1984 (New York City): 7th
- 1985 (Brussels, Belgium): 9th
- 1988 (Los Angeles, California): 10th
- 1989 (Rimini, Italy): 14th
- 1991 (Orlando, Florida): 12th
Additional professional competition highlights:
- 1988 IFBB Niagara Falls Grand Prix (Niagara Falls, New York): 3rd
- 1988 IFBB Night of Champions (New York City): 3rd
- 1988 IFBB Spanish Grand Prix (Madrid, Spain): 4th
- 1988 IFBB Italian Grand Prix (Bergamo, Italy): 3rd
- 1989 IFBB Arnold Schwarzenegger Classic (Columbus, Ohio): 5th
- 1989 IFBB World Professional Championship (Surfers Paradise, Australia): 3rd
- 1991 IFBB Montreal Grand Prix (Montreal, Quebec): 3rd
(NPC = National Physique Committee / IFBB = International Federation of BodyBuilders)
References
- ^ Legends of Bodybuilding 2, Winter, 2012, Robert Kennedy Publications
- Romesburg, Don (November 22, 2005). "OPENLY GAY U.S. ATHLETES TIME LINE". Advocate. Retrieved October 23, 2024.
- ^ "Bob Paris". IMDb. Retrieved October 20, 2015.
- Ironman Magazine, July, 1989
- Buzinski, Jim (August 8, 2011). "Moment #57: Bodybuilder Bob Paris comes out". Outsports. Retrieved August 24, 2023.
- "Former Mr. Universe Bob Paris on Oprah, coming out, marriage - Gay Lesbian Bi Trans News Archive - Windy City Times". www.windycitymediagroup.com. April 2014. Retrieved November 3, 2015.
- ^ "Mr. Universe Faced 'Tremendous' Repercussions After Coming Out In 1989". The Huffington Post. February 25, 2014. Retrieved October 20, 2015.
- "Bob Paris "The Flawless Marvel": Height | Weight | Arms | Chest | Biography". Fitness Volt. August 29, 2017. Retrieved August 7, 2019.
- "Jubilee Carnegie Hall Concert (1998)", ovrtur.com.
- "Perfect 20: Simplyshredded.com Presents The Top 20 Most Aesthetic Physiques Of All Time". SimplyShredded.com. Retrieved December 4, 2013.
- "Retro Athlete: Bob Paris". Muscle & Fitness. March 27, 2015. Retrieved August 24, 2023.
- "Gay Iconography: The Strength of Bob Paris". Towleroad Gay News. November 7, 2015. Retrieved August 7, 2019.
- Frutkin, Alan (December 10, 1996). "Wedding Bell Blues". No. 722. Advocate. Retrieved October 28, 2024.
- ^ "Bob Paris". Retrieved November 3, 2015.
- "Bob Paris". No. 766. Advocate. August 18, 1998. Retrieved October 28, 2024.
- Paris, Bob. (1991). Beyond built : Bob Paris' guide to achieving the ultimate look. New York, NY: Warner Books. ISBN 0446391468. OCLC 20757296.
- Paris, Bob. (1993). Flawless : the ten-week, total-image method for transforming your physique. New York, N.Y.: Warner Books. ISBN 0446394068. OCLC 26403318.
- Paris, Bob. (1996). Natural fitness. New York, NY: Warner Books. ISBN 0446670294. OCLC 32665052.
- Jackson-Paris, Rod, 1961- (1995). Straight from the heart : a love story. Jackson-Paris, Bob. New York: Warner Books. ISBN 0446670669. OCLC 32913836.
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: CS1 maint: multiple names: authors list (link) CS1 maint: numeric names: authors list (link) - Paris, Bob. (1997). Gorilla suit : my adventures in bodybuilding (1st St. Martin's Griffin ed.). New York: St. Martin's Griffin. ISBN 0312194587. OCLC 42306679.
- Paris, Bob. (1998). Generation queer : a gay man's quest for hope, love, and justice. New York: Warner Books. ISBN 0446675350. OCLC 41591976.
- Paris, Bob. (2002). Prime : the complete guide to being fit, looking good, feeling great (1st ed.). New York: Berkley Pub. Group. ISBN 0399527192. OCLC 47803575.
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