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"Let's Try Being in Love"
Single by Darren Hayes
from the album Homosexual
B-side	"The Look of Love"
Released	27 January 2022
Genre	Pop
Length	5:36 (original) 4:00 (edit)
Label	Powdered Sugar
Songwriter(s)	Darren Hayes
Producer(s)	Darren Hayes
Darren Hayes singles chronology
"I Never Cried So Much in My Whole Life" (2019) "Let's Try Being in Love" (2022) "Do You Remember?" (2022)

"Let's Try Being in Love" is a song by Australian singer-songwriter Darren Hayes, released on 27 January 2022 as the lead single from his fifth studio album, Homosexual. It is his first solo single since 2012's "Stupid Mistake".

Background

In 2013, Hayes stopped his music career and tried to build stand-up comedy career. At the same time, he kept creating short singing videos in his social media accounts for his fans. In 2018 Hayes briefly returned on stage with one-off performance of two songs, including "I Knew I Loved You". In 2019, Hayes featured on Cub Sport’s single “I Never Cried So Much in My Whole Life”. He did not appear in the official video. In 2020 he recorded a new version of "Truly Madly Deeply" with slightly modified lyrics. The video of his studio performance was released on YouTube on 24 April.

After his hiatus, Hayes released "Let's Try Being in Love", his first single in a decade. Referred to as a "queer anthem" by NME, in promotional interviews, Hayes explained “I’ve been married to Richard for almost 17 years, I’m in this really comfortable place in my life. But at the same time at mid-life I’m grieving the fact I never got to celebrate who I really was at the period of my life where I was most famous. I look at this world we live in now where someone like Lil Nas X can push forward his true self, full of pride and self-love and have the chance to be loved for who he truly is A lot of the time I was my most famous, I was deeply sad."

On 15 July 2022, the Louis La Roche remix was released.

Music video

A music video for the song was released on 27 January 2022, starring Hayes and featuring actor Scott Evans as his love interest. The video was directed by Andrew Putschoegl. On the video, Hayes commented, "I wanted to show I love the feminine in me, be proud of the gay me. There’s a dance scene that is so passionate, everything’s alive and thriving and blooming. That’s how I feel in general about music. And that’s a hugely sharp contrast to how I felt 10 years ago".

Critical reception

Stephen Daw for Billboard praised the single, stating that Hayes "create the perfect atmosphere for a nostalgic, lovesick pop song", adding "If you’re looking for that added boost of serotonin, look no further."

Chart performance

In the United Kingdom, "Let's Try Being in Love" debuted and peaked at number 96 on the Official UK Singles Download Chart Top 100 and at number 98 on the Official UK Singles Sales Chart Top 100.

Live performances

Hayes performed "Let's Try Being in Love" live for the first time on 5 March 2022 at the 2022 Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras Parade, where Hayes headlined. In 2023, Hayes took his Do You Remember? tour to Australia, the United Kingdom and the United States of America, where he performed "Let's Try Being in Love", amongst other tracks from Homosexual, past solo and Savage Garden hits.

Track listing

• Digital single

1. "Let's Try Being in Love" – 5:36
2. "Let's Try Being in Love" (Edit) – 4:00

• 12-inch extended mix digital single

1. "Let's Try Being in Love" (12" Extended) – 9:39
2. "The Look of Love" – 5:37

• Louis La Roche Remix

1. "Let's Try Being in Love" (Louis La Roche Remix) – 4:56

Charts

Release history

References

1. Doria, Matt (27 January 2022). "Darren Hayes returns to the spotlight with queer anthem 'Let's Try Being In Love'". NME. Retrieved 28 January 2022.
2. "Darren Hayes - Let's Try Being in Love (Louis La Roche Remix)". Apple Music. 15 July 2022. Retrieved 16 July 2022.
3. Darren Hayes announces new single ‘Let’s Try Being In Love’
4. Daw, Stephen (28 January 2022). "First Out: New Music From Charli XCX, Rina Sawayama, Tove Lo & More". Billboard. Retrieved 30 January 2022.
5. "Official Singles Downloads Chart Top 100 - 28 January 2022 - 03 February 2022". Official Charts. Retrieved 28 January 2022.
6. "Official Singles Sales Chart Top 100 - 28 January 2022 - 03 February 2022". Official Charts. Retrieved 28 January 2022.
7. "Darren Hayes Setlist at Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras Parade 2022". setlist.fm. Retrieved 8 March 2022.
8. Hildebrandt, Carla (5 March 2022). "Sparkles, unity and messages of equality as COVID-weary Sydney welcomes Mardi Gras". ABC. Retrieved 7 March 2022.
9. Zuel, Bernard (2 March 2022). "Ten years after quitting, Darren Hayes is back". The Sydney Morning Herald. Retrieved 7 March 2022.
10. Hayes, Darren (7 October 2022). "Live in North America - 2023. Toronto / New York / Los Angeles. Tickets on Sale October 14th. 25 Years of Savage Garden, Solo Hits and More". Twitter. Retrieved 13 May 2023.
11. "Darren Hayes - The Do You Remember Tour". What's on Stage. Retrieved 13 May 2023.
12. "Darren Hayes Setlist at London Palladium, London, England". Setlist. 28 March 2023. Retrieved 13 May 2023.
13. "Let's Try Being in Love - Single by Darren Hayes". 26 January 2022.
14. "Independent Label Singles – 07 Feb 2022". Australian Independent Record Labels Association. Retrieved 9 February 2022.
15. "Official Singles Downloads Chart Top 100". Official Charts Company. Retrieved 31 January 2022.

• 2022 singles
• Songs written by Darren Hayes
• 2022 songs
• LGBTQ-related songs